Finding the Perfect Bridesmaid Gift
The bridesmaid gift is essential to the
planning of a wedding. While many may believe that a wedding is
all about the bride, it is still important to show appreciation
to your bridesmaids. These are your right-hand ladies who have
always been there for you. They have taken the time to be there
and help you out on your special day and what better way of
showing appreciation than getting them a bridesmaid gift. But
how do you avoid getting a generic bridesmaid gift or something
that they will just throw away when they get home? Here are some
bridesmaid gift guidelines that should help you in your pursuit
of finding the perfect bridesmaid gift.
1) Make it Personal. The most important thing
to remember when getting a bridesmaid gift is to get something
personal. It is easy to give gift certificates or cards as
gifts, but it is much more meaningful if you pick something out
that you know they will enjoy. If you know their favorite
actor/actress has a new movie out on DVD, get it for them along
with some popcorn and candy. If they like to go to concerts,
give them concert tickets to their favorite group. A personal
and thoughtful gift demonstrates to your bridesmaid that you pay
attention to them and their interests.
2) Keep it Simple. You do not have to worry
about getting something incredibly elaborate for your bridesmaid
gift. This is not your time to demonstrate that you are a
natural Martha Stewart. Remember, this is your family and
friends and they already know that this is not the case. Jewelry
makes a great bridesmaid gift. Everyone likesto get jewelry and
it does not require you to cross-stitch pillows for each
bridesmaid. Anklets or earrings make simple but elegant
gifts. There is no need to try to be crafty with your bridesmaid
gift.
3) It does not have to be Expensive. Weddings
are already incredibly expensive; do not let the bridesmaid gift
add to your debt. An expensive bridesmaid gift is not expected
from your bridesmaids. You do not need to prove your love to
your bridesmaids by getting them something that cost you a lot
of money, you just need to get them something that shows that
you care. One idea is to get your bridesmaids some stationary.
Stationary is not expensive, but is something that is useful and
everyone can use. Another idea is getting each bridesmaid their
favorite flowers. This shows you care without emptying your
wallet. If you are really tight on cash, you can always right
them a personal thank you note. Just remember that you do not
need to buy the love of your bridesmaids with your gift.
4) Make it Tasteful. This is a request from
someone who has been a bridesmaid several times. The cards that
say "Maybe next time it will be you, but probably not" or "You
don't look good in white anyway" get old real quick. I would
stay clear from a gag bridesmaid gift unless you know for sure
that your bridesmaids will really appreciate it. The bridesmaid
gift is part of your wedding and you want it to be tasteful and
appropriate to the occasion. A possible idea is getting your
bridesmaids your favorite book. This is something that is
tasteful, personal but doesn't require a lot of time ormoney.
Also, you can give them a "relaxation kit" with your favorite
scented candles and bath salts. Keep things elegant; your
wedding is not a time for cheesy gifts.
While wedding plans can be very busy and even a little
hectic, this does not mean you need to stress out about the
bridesmaid gift. Remember to keep things simple and work on
getting something that will be useful to the bridesmaids. Your
bridesmaids will appreciate your effort.