Forgiving an Affair
The discovery of an affair will attack you with shock, anger and
numbness. No matter what way you choose to react, your
surroundings will look the same afterwards because you have not
yet started coping with what has transpired. You find that you
are suddenly lost due to being caught off guard. You never
thought this would happen to you. So when it does, what should
you do when this painful truth is revealed and how can you
forgive it?
The first thing to do when you find out that your partner has
been cheating is to allow your emotions to flow out of your
body. Holding your feelings in will only make you feel worse and
cause a tremendous amount of stress both physically and
mentally. Once you have expressed your instant reaction, you can
start thinking more slowly and rationally. You will start
examining your relationship, wondering where it went wrong and
if it was ever as wonderful as you claimed it to be. You will
create a chain of questions that have not yet been answered and
will start feeling farther and farther away from getting any of
them answered. Everything will be sorted out time, but first
thing is first