3 Steps to Playing Comfortably for a Crowd
Most people are not comfortable performing in front people. When
I say of performing, such as an instrument, or singing, or
acting, I mean more than just knowing how to do well at your
chosen craft, I mean doing it well and in front of people. It's
the "in front of people" part that gets us every time. How many
of us sing like a bird in the shower but then when people are
watching we can't carry a note. Here are three steps to start
you on the road to comfort (never complete) when called on to
shine.
1. Don't neglect to practice. Whether you sing or play an
instrument practice is the key to being relaxed. The more
familiar you are with what you are performing, the less anxiety
you will have about messing up.
2. Don't back up. Piano teaches pass this on all the time. If
you mess up in the middle, or any place in your piece, don't
back up and repeat the offending passage. Keep going. Chances
are your audience didn't even notice.
3. Try not to be critical of your technical skill. Focus more on
your overall performance. How does it sound as a whole? If
you're a pianist and you worry during your piece about your
fingering then you're ignoring the song and how it sounds. Worry
about technicalities when you practice. Which should be often.
With time playing in front of and for other people will come
much easier. You'll be a natural. So use every opportunity to
show your stuff!