Relationship Favorites
When it comes to your relationship with your spouse and
attempting to improve your marriage, you will most likely begin
learning more and more about each other. This is a great way to
get ideas for romantic planning as well as gifts for your
spouse. Begin having conversations about your likes and dislikes
with each other.
Not only will taking about these things bring you closer
together, but they can also help you express your love in an
effective manner and buy gifts that he or she is sure to enjoy.
If you want to do this in another, yet obvious way, you can make
a specific checklist for both of you to complete. It is likely
to cause all kinds of laughter and jokes at each other's
expense, but this way you will have a concrete list on hand.
When you consider the number of likes and dislikes a person can
have for just about everything in the world, it can seem a bit
overwhelming. Start with simple things like his or her favorite
color, lucky number(s), favorite music, favorite flower,
favorite child's book, favorite current author, favorite singer,
favorite song, favorite poet and favorite poem. You can then
move on to their favorite food, favorite fruit, favorite
vegetable, favorite type of chocolate, favorite cookie, favorite
ice cream flavor, favorite snack food, favorite fast food and
favorite restaurant.
Next, find out what your partner's favorite movie is (you might
want to make this a 'top five' question- most people can't
choose just one movie.) Then move on to find out who his or her
favorite actress and actor are, their favorite romantic movie,
comedy movie, musical, action movie and erotic movie. If you and
or your spouse enjoy theater, now is the time to find out the
specific of what they like about it. You can find out what their
favorite play is, what their favorite show tune is and even who
their favorite Broadway actor is.
Favorites can span all types of categories including sports and
arts. Find out about their favorite artist, favorite style of
artwork, favorite sculpture and favorite painting. Ask about his
or her favorite sport to watch as well as their favorite sport
to play. Take it further and find out about his or her favorite
Olympic sport, favorite teams and even their favorite board game.
You can find out about more personal things like his or her
favorite foreplay activity (both giving and receiving), their
favorite position for making love, their favorite love making
location, favorite sexy outfit (both his and hers), favorite
place to be touched, favorite place to be kissed, favorite time
of day to make love and their favorite fantasy. Find out their
favorite place to shop for lingerie, their favorite color of
lingerie and favorite style of lingerie.
Make note of what most might consider to be small things like
your spouse's favorite way to relax, his or her favorite
television show, their favorite scent, favorite perfume or
cologne, favorite beverage, favorite joke, favorite holiday,
favorite day of the week and so much more. Take all of this
information and treat it as the valuable resource that it is.
Use it, update it and tweak it as often as necessary.