Moving on Up!
It is necessary to go through the beginning steps or 'level 1'
of romance in order to move on to bigger and better levels of
romance. After you've done all of the traditional things most
couples consider to be romantic like chocolates, flowers,
jewelry, lingerie, cards, perfume, movies and dinner at fancy
restaurants, you are only scratching the surface of the world of
romance.
While the classics never go out of style, they can become
monotonous and lose their novelty. When you are putting effort
into being romantic, you will lose your original intent in the
monotony of your gestures without growth. If you have a desire
for your marriage to endure as well as prosper, you've got to be
willing to grow through the romantic process.
Once you have exhausted all of the traditional 'romantic'
gestures over a period of time, you no doubt realized that
timing had a great deal to with the outcome of any romantic
effort. When it comes to romance, timing is crucial. In order to
continue growing in the art of romance, you will have to create
an element of surprise in order to keep things fresh, exciting,
fun and original. In order to create surprises, you will need to
work on perfecting your timing.
Timing also has another meaning as your romance grows. You need
to pay attention and be sensitive to your partner's involvement
at the time of your gift. If he or she is trying to lose weight,
then you should never even consider giving him or her chocolate
or candy. If he or she is preoccupied with work, they may not
have the time to appreciate grand gesture that you worked so
hard to plan and you will both end up feeling frustrated and
disappointed at the results. Hold on to your big ideas until
things are a little less hectic in your lives so that both you
and your spouse can savor your romantic efforts.
Once you've moved into more advanced levels of romance, you can
do something that is so simply yet should be very well received.
Whenever you go to a party or other social event, flirt with him
or her just a little bit. Once you've done this a few times,
pretend you are living out a 'pick-up' fantasy with him or her
but don't let any of the other guests know what is going on.
Continue with your fantasy all the way home (giggling is allow,
but don't let it spoil the mood!).
At the next social gathering, 'pick him or her up' again, but
continue with the fantasy at the party. While you are at the
party, sneak off together to have wild, passionate sex. You will
both probably talk about that night for some time to come!
(Especially if you get caught, so remember to lock the door!)
Once you've completed your romantic wooing, take a break for a
while before starting again. Imagine the build of anticipation
for the climax (pun is intended) of your game.