Mood Makers
Are you in the mood for love? Maybe you're not quite ready yet?
Well, once you start bringing romance back into your life or
even if you're trying it out for the first time, you will start
to experience a wonderful new mood inspired by your new love
affair with your spouse. Start off slowly with the traditional
romantic gestures like holding doors open, flowers, candy,
little love letters and special attention to his or her needs.
Once you make these romantic gestures habits in your marriage,
you will find that your appetite for more romance and other
similar moods will increase with time. You can satisfy your
appetite with some fun and sensuous as well as romantic ideas.
When you find that you are ready to implement romantic acts into
your daily routine with your spouse, be creative with what you
can come up with. For example, you can buy decorative pillows
for the bedroom with "Tonight" and "Not Tonight" printed on
either side. You can use this as your own private signal for
each other and your intentions. Other couples will use more
subtle indications as to their intentions with you in the
bedroom.
When you want to think of your own, you can make up your own
'code' to say whenever the mood strikes you. Maybe your wife
will say "I'm getting tired" and then you can say, "Well, then
let's get you to bed." Try something even more subtle like
saying the same word three times in the same sentence like
'blue' or another obvious word. Walk up to your partner and
begin humming 'your song' in his or her ear. Pull a Carol
Burnett and tug on your ear lobe- whatever you both agree on
will be a small form of your own private foreplay that will make
you want to rush home and make love!
Sometimes it takes something extra special that both you and
your partner enjoy to get in the mood like chocolate! Chocolate
is one of the few things that most men and women share a love
for and never tire of. You can use chocolate in a number of ways
to spark romance or initiate a little foreplay with your
partner. You can always, of course, present your spouse with a
gift of their favorite chocolate and that is sometimes enough to
get him or her in the mood. Try bringing his or her favorite
chocolates to bed one night and feed each other. You can always
be selfish and only allow your spouse to lick off what melts on
your fingers. Also, you can 'accidentally' get some melted
chocolate on your spouse! Lick it off, say that it tastes so
much better on them and do it again and again!
Make plans to take a vacation completely focused on chocolate
together! Two of the world's most famous chocolate factories are
the Nestle chocolate factory in Broc, Switzerland and the
Hershey Chocolate factory in Hershey, Pennsylvania. Some people
even believe that chocolate is an aphrodisiac. Why not test this
theory on your own chocolate vacation fantasy?