Getting a Perfect Score for Your Relationship
You probably have a good idea of where you and your spouse are
in your relationship or if you don't, it's time to find out.
Consider thinking about your relationship, write down where you
believe your relationship could use some improvement and talk to
your spouse about what you have been thinking and feeling.
Achieving an exceptional relationship is not easy, but it is an
attainable goal. People who have wonderfully rewarding
relationships are loving and giving people. This is a lifestyle
that is available to every couple that is willing to work
towards such a goal.
When you are looking to have an outstanding relationship with
your spouse, you will benefit in more ways than you can imagine.
You will be more able to understand you loving relationship in
ways that you never thought possible and it helps you to act in
ways that satisfy both you and your partner as well as nurture
both of you as a couple. An exceptional relationship is one
where you and your partner have the best intimate relationship
possible, where you are both faithful, passionate, committed to
growth, romantic and fascinating, you both consistently work at
making your love grow and although not perfect, your
relationship is one that you wouldn't trade for anything else in
the world.
So, how do you arrive at such an existence with your spouse? You
must dedicate yourself to achieving excellence while you work
hard, play hard and you both work on your relationship skills
together. As simple as it sounds, you both have to live how you
love each other each and every day. Great relationships don't
just happen. They arise as the result of work, work, and work!
You need to be creative and work together at creating the
relationship into one life you can both share together.
Your relationship with your spouse is very individual and only
you both know what you want as far as a life together. You are
in charge of making your rules and expectations for your
individual relationship. This type of direction you can make for
your marriage is a wonderful concept in the way people view
relationships. You are able to make your relationship into
exactly what you want it to be. You are in charge of your goals
and in meeting your own standards.
You have the unique knowledge that allows you to create a
relationship out of the values you treasure the most like
honesty, faith, commitment, creativity, flexibility and
equality. With this knowledge as well as the desire to create
such a wonderfully romantic and loving desire, you can create a
relationship that is not only fulfilling and rewarding but
enviable as well.
When you can center your attention on the behaviors in your
marriage and not on the personalities, you can focus you
attention on setting goals instead of placing blame. This method
helps you to set, reach and maintain your goals in order to have
the marriage most couples only dream of.