Couple's Romance Cure
Some couples are genuinely motivated when it comes to creativity
and romance. Others take a little prompting and pushing. For
those who want to be hopeless romantics but work better when
they have a simple guide to work by, there are romance orders
that can only lead you to your own couple's romance cure. Follow
these steps and you might just find that you actually enjoy some
of your own ideas that spontaneously pop into you head!
Look at your spouse. Really look at him or her. Make mental
notes about all of the things you find attractive and admire
about your mate. If something crosses your mind that could be
considered negative, immediately erase it from your mind. It
doesn't matter when you teach yourself to focus on the good
qualities. Start to compliment him or her several times a day.
Pace yourself and commit to giving him or her a compliment at
regular intervals like every four to six hours. If you have a
watch with a timer on it you can use that until you get in the
habit of doing it on your own, which will happen naturally.
Just as you take the time to have at least three meals a day,
make sure you tell your spouse that you love them at least three
times a day. Successfully romantic couples know that the first
thing they should say to each other in the morning before
anything else is "I love you" and they mean it. They look into
their partner's eyes and make sure they say that they love the
other person with feeling. Begin your day by telling you partner
you love them and continue at your own discretion. Another great
action to accompany your expression of love or to be used all on
its own is to give your spouse a hug. Hug tightly, hug gently,
hug for a long time, hug quickly, but be sure to hug often.
When you have a problem with your body, you often go to see a
doctor to have it fixed or cured. Treat romance in your
relationship the same way a doctor would treat a patient, except
you are the doctor and your spouse is the patient. While you are
always welcome to play 'doctor' in the bedroom, these are ideas
that lead to creating romance both in and out of the bedroom.
Have you heard that the green M&M's can help arouse a person?
While there is no scientific research to support such a claim,
it is a fun and interesting idea! Take an empty aspirin bottle
and fill it only with green M&M's. Label it appropriately
including your spouse's name, what the medication is, any side
effects, dosage, how many refills are available and the doctor's
name that prescribed the medication. Place it on his or her
bedside table or along with the other medications or daily
vitamins they take.
Another version of this idea is to take a bottle of a great
smelling lotion or oil and label it is if it should be used like
a prescription. You might want to select fragrances like vanilla
or musk that are said to have an aphrodisiac effect!
Whatever you choose to do, it will no doubt inspire more and
more romantic ideas for your marriage. Once you have taken these
ideas and your own have begun to blossom, cherish each one and
make sure your spouse knows that every single idea is strictly
for him or her!