Valentine's Day and Married couples.
Valentine's Day - the day of lovers and the day for the lovers.
What significance does it have for many married couples? Imagine
getting up early, getting ready for work and rushing off as
usual. On the way, when you watch at the scenes outside, you
realize that it is Valentine's Day! But you have many other
worries of office and home. The worries and the daily grind of
life kills the joy. What used to be awaited by you goes away
without any celebration. Why? Where is the spirit gone? Has age
made any difference? Has life changed for you? Have the
priorities shifted? Is it that you have thousand other worries
than thinking of celebrating Valentine's Day?
As we grow , we change. What used to give us joy during the
childhood, stops doing when we are young. How many young people
make sand castles? And as we grow older, the objects of joy
during the youth become equally insignificant. Why?
A thing of joy is forever. Why can not an old person enjoy
making sand castles, run behind a butterfly to catch it, or try
and win hearts as he/she used to do in young age? Where do we
lose our life and become dead bodies going around doing routine
work? Why can not we bring back the days of childhood and youth
and be happy and feel elated at all the times? All this applies
to a married couple. After few years, and in some cases, few
months, the romance goes away from life.
Some things are life giving. Love is one such magic. It can give
new life and joy to anyone. How to recapture this after
marriage? Can it be recaptured? It can be to a certain extent.
Because one can not go back to enjoy the thrill of one's
sweetheart again, as he/she has already been conquered. Let us
find out what can be recaptured and how? How about sitting
together and watching the moon? How about walking together in
rains? How about sharing ice cream from the same tea cup? How
about buying clothes for each other with the same passion? How
about feeling bad when alone and feeling extreme joy in
togetherness? How about reciting poetries? Make a list of all
that you did when you fell in love. Find out what all you have
stopped. Redo them with more vigor and bring your love back in
life.
A marriage can be a very happy marriage if the partners love
each other every moment. If their heart beats increase when they
look at each other. Sounds silly? But this can also be done. Go
back to your love and say Happy Valentine's Day to your spouse
with the same passion as you did earlier.
Here is something for you for Valentine's day. Download some
screensavers and also send them them across to your spouse's
computer. Or enjoy watching them together. You will love them
and each other more.Screensaver1 , Screensaver2 , Screensaver3 , Screensaver4 , Screensaver5 , Screensaver6, Screensaver7 ,
Why should we watch passively and see our love dying? Why should
we not make every effort to love with the same romance that we
experienced when we met our sweetheart for the first time?