Secret Of A Happy Marriage
Never ever fight!
Disagreements can sometimes be healthy in a relationship if done
once in a while. Never allow fighting to eat away your
relationship. In fighting, both parties lose the fight. No one
ever wins.
Fighting can be damaging. It involves emotions. When emotions
get involved, you may say harmful things that you really dont
mean to say, and unfortunately whats done can never be taken
back.
As much as possible, avoid getting into a heated argument. A
fight can easily damage a marital relationship. The fight may
start over an unimportant matter and before you both know it, it
soon escalates into an exchange of offensive words.
Always remember the Law of Harvest. Dont continue to sow seeds
of you always or you never into your relationship so that you
will not reap it. Whatever you focus on and hear over and over
again becomes a reality.
Avoid using the following words:
You did it again! When will you learn? I cant believe this. I
married someone whos not capable of doing things right. This is
such a mess!
Don