Are you ready to get married?

Marriage is supposed to last a lifetime. Are you ready for that big step? Here are some indicators that can help you find out. With the high divorce rate, it may seem risky to get married these days. Of course, marriage has always been a risk since we don't know how we'll get along with someone under the same roof, no matter how long we've known each other. If you are flirting with the idea of getting hitched, assuming you have found someone with whom you share a serious relationship, you may want to consider indicators like those that follow. While there is no fool proof way to guarantee that someone is or is not ready to wed, issues like the following may help you reflect on potential problems to deal with before saying "I do." 1. Will your financial condition contribute to a successful marriage? Although you and your intended may have agreed that you will not work for a while, or might work for fewer hours or less of a salary, money problems are at the top of the list of issues that married couples fight about. Unexpected expenses like medical bills, home and auto repairs, and recreational costs can soon have the most loving couple at each other's throat as bulldogs more than lovers. Make a budget with your beloved and determine if both of you can live within a joint framework of shared income and expenditures. If conflicts arise, make an appointment to see a marriage counselor. 2. Can you put up with your fianc