Gifts for Your Loved One
In a relationship, it is very important to keep the spark alive.
If you've beginning to feel that your relationship is dull, or
maybe it's just not as exciting as it used to be, then you
should do something about it - especially if you're in love with
that special someone.
There are several different ways to keep the electricity flowing
in your relationship. The best, but by far the least common is
to surprise your special someone with a gift just because they
are themselves. This is where your creativity shines through and
you can be as uncommon or as traditional as you want to be. It
can be as expensive or as inexpensive as you want. The important
part is that it is a "just because" gift. Traditional gifts tend
to include flowers, jewelry, or fashion. If you choose to go
with flowers, go with a custom bouquet and do not go cheap.
Cheap flowers look horrible. If you have no idea what to pick,
discuss the whole thing with your florist. They'll be able to
help create the perfect bouquet. Classically, the ideal bouquet
is two-dozen red roses.
Jewelry is a real delicate issue if that's the route you want to
go. Just like cheap flowers, cheap jewelry looks tacky.
Authentic diamonds are recommended. A necklace, earrings and/or
a bracelet, all in one theme (such as white gold, yellow gold,
platinum, etc.) is definitely the way to go.
For fashion, you might look at an expensive piece, such as a new
purse from Coach or Louis Vuitton. It really just depends on
your significant other. Keep an eye and ear out the next time
you go shopping with your significant other so that you can know
what that special someone really desires.
A more creative gift is typically the cheapest. A love letter
telling her all of the reasons why she is the best thing that
has ever happened to you is a very good way to go. Use your best
handwriting on this one and put it in an envelope and leave it
somewhere she can find it easily.
If your loved one loves to read, find that favorite book and get
a signed copy or a first edition. This is the idea gift for an
avid reader and she'll appreciate it.
A poem is a little bit difficult to work on, but even if you're
not gifted with words, your feelings for her, real and honest on
the page is worth it. Don't try to be a gifted poet - just write
your feelings for her. Remember that the constant theme to this
is to show how amazing this woman is to you - how thankful and
blessed you are to have her in your life. Put her needs before
yours and thank her for being a part of your life. She will love
you all the more for it. Even if she already knows, it does not
hurt to remind her on a regular basis just how special she is to
you.