How to Reviving Romance in Marriage
After being together for a long time, the romance in most
marriages starts to fade. We want our love to never end and
desire to be closer to our partner but the stress and busyness
of life gets in the way. Interestingly many couples facing this
dilemma think their love has fizzled, when in actual fact, their
communication has reached a plateau.
In every relationship there are two levels of communication. The
first level is surface communication and the second is deep
communication. Surface level communication involves discussing
the details of daily life, like paying bills, sharing chores,
where to go for vacation, discussing the kids and so forth. Deep
communication is more intimate; it involves sharing your
feelings, hopes, dreams and fears. Deep level communication
occurs when an individual feels secure enough in a relationship
to be vulnerable with their emotions and be their true self.
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