Are you feeling jealousy? Should you exit the lifestyle stage
right?
It is widely spoken that jealousy and the swinging lifestyle do
not mix. I was once told that I had two choices for dealing with
my jealousy. 1. Get out of the lifestyle or 2. Dismiss my
jealousy and continue swinging. Certainly, I did not want to
give up on living the lifestyle. My desire did not leave me
because of my jealousy. I chose to dismiss it. This lead us
blindly into 3 bad swinging encounters. Let's face it, we are
all human and we face and deal with jealousy issues outside of
the lifestyle.Why should the lifestyle be any differsnt? We had
our first awesome swinging encounter once I was able to admit my
jealousy. Not only did I admit it to myself but I also admitted
it to the couple we were planning our next encounter with.
Surprisingly enough, they were very understanding and willing to
help. Always be honest about your desires and feelings. Hiding
jealousy does not make it go away. Face it, deal with it and
allow prospective swinging partners to help you work through it.