Dating - The Safe & Fun Way
DATING. Smiles all over. If you really had to go through lot of
tribulations, this adds spice to the humour. They become stories
which the family loves to laugh about at dinner. However, If you
want a hassle-free date, you need to sort out your priorities
first.
To get the maximum out of your date, you need to plan it well. A
safe approach is not to try out too many things.
There are no binding principles on dating. Still some facts
would help enhance your excitement and also reduce the
possibility of dating a wrong prospect.
1) First, conduct a telephonic conversation. Generally, meeting
through ads and online, invites undesirable elements. Therefore,
invest time over the phone to reach a level of surety about your
prospective date. This saves time you would have otherwise
wasted on a blind date.
2) Certain inquiries regarding their type and place of work,
their residence and most importantly, their marital status is
mandatory. They may sound highly mundane but these actually help
in creating a better understanding.
3) Your first date should be absolutely simple. You should
restrict it to something between one to three hours. It will
save you the awkwardness of spending time when things do not
seem to be working out between you. It will also save you the
embarrassement of ending the date so soon.
4) Be careful about the place for your date. It should be
convenient spot for both of you. It should not be very formal
nor too informal. A cool location where you can talk, hear and
understand each other.
5) Leave contact details of your date with a close friend. It
should be done by both the parties as it is to do with your
safety and security. Disaster never comes in knocking, it simply
barges in.
6) Remember to go dutch on the expenses of the first date so
that no one has to bear the financial obligation alone. You will
have ample opportunity to show your chivalry if things work out
favourably.
7) The word dating, years later, evokes nostalgia as each date
brings you closer to someone with whom you would like to spend
the rest of your life.
So stop pondering over these guidelines. Get going!