ARE TOYS THE ANSWER?
When you've been swinging for a while, the question of adding a
little something more to mix is inevitable. And it's not because
you're bored necessarily, but it can be because you're just
looking to crank up the fun a little.
And with all of the sex product stores and websites available,
you might be wondering if toys are the route to go.
Good For Anytime
Not only can sex toys spice up swinging experiences, but they
can also help you out when you're on your own. Actually, some
people find it rather arousing to watch someone pleasure
themselves.
Or you can use it when you're waiting to swing again.
Batteries Last Longer
When you're trying to please someone orally, you may find that
your stamina isn't always at the peak of its worth. Using
vibrators and other stimulators can help to keep the feeling
going without causing your jaw to ache.
Also, there are products for men that can enhance penis
stimulation.
And these toys can be used when your hands are busy doing
something else so you get the best of all the stimulating words
there are.
But I Can't Reach
For places that go out of reach at times, you can use toys to
assist you. Also, if you're a bit hesitant to go certain places
(anal play is one example), there are toys that can do the
stimulating for you.
While you help out in other areas.
If One Of You Is Too Tired
Of course, if one of you is too tired to keep up the action,
then a vibrator or other stimulator can keep going. This is also
a good thing to have if one person is in the mood, but another
is not.
Multiple orgasms are exhausting, so the less work that you need
to do to help the other person achieve your bliss, the better.
Toys Are Good For You
This might be a bit of a stretch, but having an orgasm releases
oxytocin into the bloodstream. This is a hormone that calms the
body and prevents you from feeling pain.
So, heck, why not try a toy to do your own research.
Learning Curve
Toys can also be a great way to learn more about your partner or
other person involved in swinging. By trying out new things
together, you can build on the relationship that you've already
begun.
Or you and your partner can try something out and then share it
in a swinging setting.
What To Buy
One of the greatest things about the Internet is the anonymity.
If you've never bought a sex toy before, you can go online and
read user reviews as well as information to make the best
decision.
You will see that there are many more toys for women than for
men, but that doesn't mean that men's toys aren't any good. You
just need to try a lot out to see what works for you.
If at first you don't find something that is pleasurable, then
try again. Soon you'll find something that will move you in the
right direction and add a little something-something to your
swinging experience.
I have tried a few different places to buy toys online. Click
here for my favorite - based on quality, reputation, discretion,
and of course price.