FOREPLAY FUN
I like to think of foreplay as a delicious appetizer and a way
to get things rolling. Now, there are plenty of ways to move
this along, so let's start with some ideas and you can be
creative from there.
As we've talked about before, some of the best foreplay is in
the setting itself, so make sure that there are candles lit, and
every arrangement has been made for an interrupted evening of
bliss.
Feeding The Fire
One of the ways to get the night started is to feed each other.
While eating isn't always the sexiest thing, being served can be.
If you're two couples, you can reverse roles. The women can feed
the men, or vice versa. Do this slowly so that you can look into
each other's eyes. Try to signal your intentions for the
evening, and let the other know how excited you already are.
Chocolate dipped strawberries are a decadent treat.
You can also offer each other drinks or other light snacks. Food
has a way of calming us and getting us ready for deeper contact.
You can also put the morsel of food in your mouth and offer it
to someone else, but they have to take it without using their
hands. Delicious.
Turning On The Evening
While I don't suggest this for anyone that hasn't already
propositioned it, watching a sexy movie can be a great way to
introduce a sexy mood.
Find one that appeals to everyone and something that isn't too
corny so that you're laughing more than you're becoming aroused.
You may want to make suggestions among yourselves and then pick
a few in case they don't end up working out.
Dim the lights and watch the action. Perhaps you'll want to copy
the actors as you watch. Let the darkness cover any nervousness.
Starting With Your Comfort Zone
Another great way to start a little foreplay seduction is to
take turns showing affection to your partners. With your own
partner, kiss, touch, and caress them. Show them how much you
love them and their faith in your relationship.
Then the other couple can do the same. Before you know it, you
will all be enjoying each other at the same time.
Now, switch.
Try A Game
There are plenty of 'dirty' games out there that you can buy and
play together. Try a naughty card game or striptease poker. Not
only are these erotic, but they also can relax you into a
seductive state.
And add in a lot of sexual innuendo and every ones in the end.
But this is just a sampling of things that you can do as
foreplay. Of course, you can come up with your own versions of
these appetizing starters.
Or if the heat is just right, you may not make it through them.
When you're first starting out though, I highly recommend doing
something to get the evening started in the erotic tone. Start
with the usual conversation and dinner, if you'd like.
Then move to somewhere more comfortable and let the fun begin...