How to Keep a Boy Friend For Ever
Every girl wants to have at least a good boy friend with which
she can share her joys and sorrows. It is also their biological
and psychotically need. The bubble of having many boy friends is
bursting because of the scare of aids and many other sexual
diseases. Although sex is not a part of boy-girl friendships yet
it happens in most of the cases. So wise people adopt the policy
of one good boy friend or girt friend.
Most of the girls have to face the problem of keeping their boy
friends in their hold. But after a certain period it becomes
difficult for a girl and she starts feeling frustration.
Sometimes she thinks that her boy friend is neglecting her and
having friendship with another girl. Consequent situation is
difficult to cope. She loses her appetite, sleep and joy. She is
unable to solve the problem. Here are some good tips which can a
girl to keep his boy friend always hovering around her. She can
enjoy the life to maximum. Even other girls may feel jealous of
her.
1. Don't Make a Boy Friend in a Hurry
The first step is to keep patience and don't be in a hurry to
make a boy friend. Such hurried steps often cause heart-burns.
Moreover, you may be exploited by a bad boy friend. The horrible
experience may shatter your dreams or even career. Observe the
boys whom you come in contact with. Step forward cautiously and
go for the right one. His nature must be suitable to your
temperament. He should be a nice and career-oriented boy.
2. Try to Give the Life Style He Wants
Most of the girls forget the life style his boy friend wants.
They are more concerned with their own life styles. It is ok to
live your own life style. After all you can't sacrifice your
wishes for others. But when you have got a boy friend that is
good for you then his life style must be understood too. You
should help him in every way. And you will be surprised he will
care for your feelings and wishes more.
3. Do Unique Things for Him
Don't be a boring girl friend. If you treat him like a robot he
will start looking elsewhere after a gap of time. It is human
nature. You can't change it. So use your mind and do unique
things for him now and then. Give him surprises. For example,
learn a recipe secretly and prepare a new dish for him when he
least expects. Give him a thing he likes. You don't need to wait
for special occasion like his birthday, new year, Christmas,
etc. You may suddenly kiss him during unexpected hours. In fact
it is difficult to give details of such things. You have to
invent your own uniqueness according to your and your friend's'
nature.
4. Give Him a Breathing Space
In the beginning period of friendship both boy and girl are
curious and want to explore each other as much as they can. They
want to be always with each other and show a tolerant attitude.
But after some time the euphoria subsides and both of them need
some breathing space. This phase must be understood by a girl.
She should then try not to be on her boy friend's neck all the
time. He may start avoiding her. After all he also needs to
devote time to his study, career or family.
5. Control Your Nagging Habit
It is the biggest factor behind break-ups. A girl becomes
nagging and adamant in her demands after a period. It irritates
the boy friend. Friendship remains no more a thrill for him and
he seems bored. Most of the girls don't understand it. Instead a
girl starts thinking that her boy friend has changed and she
curses him more. Consequences: tiffs, frustration, and then
break-up
6. Share His Problems
Every human being has problems, thus you have your own too. Your
boy friend mostly understands your problem and tries to solve
them. Be wise to know that he too has his problems. Understand
those problems and try to solve them. No boy leaves a girl
friend that becomes his strength in life. So become his
strength.
Anandrahi
Trained thousands of persons to get great jobs, improve
personality and achieve goals in business. CEO: News of India
Network Director: LSE-India, Global English Training
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