Conversation Starters for Successful Daters
Dating can seem hard. It is hard to find someone that shares
your same interests. It is hard to find someone you connect
with. Looking for love is definitely a hard road to travel.
Dating conversation can be the most awkward situation a person
can ever find themselves in. Stating a dating conversation is
frustrating. For many people just the anticipation is enough to
make them not even try to find conversation starters.
In starting a conversation while dating you are actually at an
advantage because you both already have something in common -
you are on a date together, at the same place, with, hopefully,
the same intentions. The only thing left to do is pick one of
those three things to talk about and get started.
The following section explains what types of conversation
starters work best in a dating situation. These tips can help
you to understand why certain topics result in better
conversation.
You can then use this knowledge to help yourself start some good
dating conversations.
1. Observant comments.
Starting a conversation by commenting on something around you
allows your date to participate in the conversation. You could
make a comment about something interesting your date is wearing
or about the place you are at.
Observant comments focus the conversation on something both of
you can talk about and shows your date that you are at ease
enough to be looking at things around you, not just focusing on
yourself.
2. Adding humor.
Almost everyone can appreciate a good joke. People love to
laugh. It releases tension and will generally put someone at
ease. Adding in a little humor to your conversation will liven
things up.
It will show your date you are not afraid to laugh and you are
fun to be around. Be careful of focusing too much on being
funny, though. Let it come naturally.
3. Be unique.
Say something interesting or unusual. Avoid being weird, though.
Catch your date off guard with something that is not a clich