WIFE SWINGER STORIES: THE CLUB SCENE
Some of the best wife swinger stories have come from the club
scene, but does that really make them the best way to go?
A lot of couples can be worried that the images in their head
are either better or worse than the reality of the swingers
clubs and gatherings. Let's look at some of the things that you
may be able to expect.
Getting Into The Swing Of Things
If you've ever felt like a fish out of water because of your
swinger tendencies, then you may find the perfect home in
swingers clubs. Through careful guidelines and well-hidden
locales, swingers clubs are able to sort through all of the
deviants and find couples that are honestly interested in
swinging.
You can either do a search online or in your local phone book to
see if there are any swinger clubs near you. Of course, if
you're in a smaller town, you may need to head to the big city
for a little fun.
You and your partner may also want to investigate at the local
adult themed stores to find out about private swinger events.
It's not that local swingers are ashamed of their lifestyle, but
other co-workers may not be so accepting so clubs allow them to
experience other couples without being 'discovered.'
Calling Ahead
You'll want to contact the event planners or the club itself to
talk to the owners before you just head over. Some places have
rules that they like to go over and questions that they may want
to ask.
And they'll want to ask both of you, so you should both be ready
to talk.
There may be dress codes or a theme for the evening. This is
also a great opportunity to ask any questions that you might
have as well.
This call is simply to weed out anyone that doesn't suit the
club's atmosphere. And since they've probably been holding
functions for swingers for a while, they have a good instinct
about those that won't fit in.
How Clubs Help You
Swingers clubs are a great way to interact with a select group
of people without the fear of having your personal information
revealed. You don't have to reveal your names if you don't want
to, so any wife swinger stories that may happen won't get out.
There are also staff members for security as well as people who
can answer any questions that you might have.
The clubs are usually fun places with lots of conversation
pieces to get couples talking, while also allowing some darker
corners for more intimate interactions.
Dress nice and be open to what happens around you. Many first
timers like to just watch the activities around them; see what
the club is all about.
And this is perfectly fine.
Another great concept that most clubs employ is a no-pressure
policy. So if you don't want to do something, then you don't
have to. And no one should try to talk you into anything.