Personals - How To Have An Impressive First Date
How to have an impressive date with a woman
Asking her for a date:
* Ask her out in person. Your conversations together is an
opportunity for you to discover if both your personalities and
ideas are attuned with each other, before you do decide to ask
her out for a date.
* When calling through the phone. Don't forget to mention to her
the conversations you had. This will give her the impression
that you do listen, making her feel important. Then if you feel
that it is time to ask her, go ahead; ask gently, not in a
demanding manner.
* Ask when you both are alone. Never ask a girl out on a date in
front of others, like her friends. This will either embarrass
her, and may say yes or embarrass you, if she says no.
During the date:
* Look good, be neat. Put extra effort to the way you look. Take
the time be well groomed, smell nice and choose your clothes
well. It must correspond to the place with which your date is
set. Make a good impression, so you can charm her and she can be
proud of you.
* Do not be late. Prepare for the big day ahead. Make the
necessary reservations and planning for your date. If you have
planned for it, she will be impressed that you did put some
effort on your night together. Be sure that during the "big day"
you have no appointments so you won't be cramming and be on time.
* Be polite. Be sure to make her feel good by complementing the
way she looks. And when seated at the table, turn your cell
phone off. This will signal to her that you are very much
interested in your moment together.
* Say her name. Make it a point to say her name ever so often in
your conversations, to make her feel at ease and special.
* Smile. Aside from putting up a positive attitude, your smile
is an indication that you are happy to be with her.
* Have a Sense of Humor. Making a woman laugh means you have won
half your battle. This means that she is having a nice time and
creates a positive atmosphere. This will be an occasion she
would remember, because she had fun!
* Be attentive. Listen to what she has to say or is saying, do
not interrupt. Let her finish, before you state your opinion and
make eye contact.
* Be honest. Let her get to know you by telling her what you do,
what interests you, don't make up stories. If she will not like
you for who you are, then she is not worth your time. Show
interest in her too, by asking her about her work, hobbies and
her likes. Be sensible and honest in initiating such
conversations.
* Relax. Do not worry that your date is not having a good time.
Go ahead and ask her. Just manage yourself well and enjoy the
evening. Keep the conversations open and ask questions. Be
sincere.
* Do not pretend. Be yourself. Pretending into somebody that
you're not, will not work in the long run. The truth will always
come out sooner or later. It is a rewarding feeling if someone
is drawn to you for who you really are.
* Never compare. It will be very unfair of you if you compare
your date to your past girlfriend. Keep in mind that she is a
totally different person with her own personality. Take the time
to discover her; you might be pleased if you do. Comparing won't
get you anywhere. An important thing to remember, do not ever
articulate your comparisons with your date, this will surely
lead to disaster.
* Never tell your date about your break-up. Keep in mind that
you asked her out so you both could have fun together. She is
not your therapist, so do not recount your past relationship.
Burry the past and move on. Here is a woman in front of you who
is interested to know you more. Get to know her too, initiate a
conversation that could lead to a common interest.
* Enjoy. Dating should be exciting and relaxing. A woman could
sense if you are enjoying or not. Don't stress yourself trying
so hard to make it "The Perfect date" because it won't be. But
you both can enjoy it. After all, you did invite her out because
you liked her in the first place. Be spontaneous and have fun.