WIFE SWAPPING: CHOOSING THE PERFECT COUPLE

When it comes to finding someone that you feel comfortable with, you usually take your time, right? Well, when it comes to wife swapping, that same train of thought applies. There are certain factors that you should consider and weigh heavily as you choose someone to swing with: Honesty You need to find people that are going to be honest with you. These are people that tell you what their needs are, what they do not like, and what their fantasies are. You want to see all of their cards before you play any games. If you should catch them in a lie, then you will need to figure out if they are someone that you want to spend your time with. This is especially true when you are meeting someone online; as you want to be sure that you are not in a dangerous situation. One of the red flags for a con artist is someone whose story changes as they talk with you. Perhaps they tell you where they live and then suddenly, they mention living somewhere else. My advice? Get as far away as possible when you run into a liar. Open Communication When you're being honest, that's great, but can you talk about things as they arise? When wife swapping, there can be a lot of complicated issues that need to be discussed. These can include jealousy, new fantasies, and roleplaying ideas, just as examples. You need to be able to frankly talk about what you want and what you don't want from your swinging experience. You're human and your feelings may change on what you originally intended for the relationship. Being able to talk through these shifts is vital to maintaining your swinging relationship. If you feel uncomfortable in any way, take things slower. And if they still do not improve, it may be time to move on. Similar Fantasies You don't have to share the same fantasies, but you may want to look for couples that are interested in the same things. Whether you're interested in roleplaying or bondage games, you want to be able to share in these things. On the other hand, you may want to keep particular fantasies for your own relationship as a way to show your commitment to each other. Finding Matching Goals Although you may not want to share every fantasy, perhaps you are looking to overcome some issues that you have with particular sexual acts. If this is the case, then you may want to bring this up with another couple to see if this is something that you can all explore. For example, if you are a woman who is interested in touching another woman, then you will want to see if this is something that would be okay. Of course, many men would jump at the idea of watching such a scene, but the other woman must be comfortable as well. Finding the right couple will take time and effort, but be strict about things that are important to you and to a relationship in general. You're sure to find someone that fits the description of swinging ecstasy.