THE BASICS OF WIFE SWAPPING
First of all, wife swapping is an older term for swinging, but
it's still found in articles and literature, so we're going to
use it here.
Swinging is a new way to experience your current relationship in
the presence of another couple or single. You can be
heterosexual, bisexual, or homosexual to enjoy this exciting
lifestyle.
Who's Swapping
Men and women from all walks of life are finding that wife
swapping is something that appeals to them. Perhaps they're been
in a relationship for a while and just want to try something new.
Maybe there are sexual boundaries that they want to push through
and you want to explore these with your partner.
Swingers are well-dressed, 'normal' folks that are looking for
something more in their relationship, something that can bring
them closer together in a fun and satisfying way. We're not the
'freaks' that earlier stereotypes have made us to be.
And maybe this has been a fantasy for a long time that only
recently the couple has decided to pursue.
The ages range from late twenties to mid-fifties and the sizes
and shapes are numerous. If you're into certain preferences and
fetishes, then you're also in luck because swinging can support
those as well.
If you can think of it, swinging can do it for you.
Why We're Swapping
We're swinging because we want to try something new, not because
we want to have more sex or cheat on our partners. In fact,
swinging isn't cheating at all.
Cheating implies secrecy and that there is something wrong with
the act, but swinging is done with the full knowledge of the
other partner. There are no secrets in swinging and everything
is fully discussed before being done.
If anything, swinging brings you closer together because you can
feel safe to try new things and support your partner as he or
she is pleasured by someone else.
Where We're Swapping
You can experience swinging just about anywhere these days. Most
of the larger cities have their own swingers clubs or meeting
places, while smaller towns have resources to find their own
venues.
Many of the adult stores will guide you to swinging resources,
but if they can't help, then go onto the Internet for
directories.
And if you're a bit hesitant to go out and find other swinging
couples, then you can always try the online swinging websites.
Like regular dating websites, you will be matched up with other
couples that are similar to your tastes and location.
Once you've found someone to swing with, then you can set up
personal meetings at clubs or at your own residences.
And once you're swinging, you can get even more creative with
the locale.
You may want to try out going to an exotic (and erotic)
destination and living out a dream vacation.
Swinging is the way that some couples find more gratification in
their sexual lives and more strength in their relationship. If
you've thought about giving swinging a try, then why not look
into it?