How to Write a Successful Personal Ad?
After days or months of unsuccessful approaches in bars, pubs,
you have decided to search for the love not in the wrong places
and decided to look for the one in online dating so you're
one step closer to success by deciding that anyway.
There are 3 important factors in online dating that can
instantly lead you to success rather than another failure.
- A solid and stunning personal ad.
- A genuine picture with a warm smile of yours.
- Writing effective emails to your matches.
But, here we'll discuss how to write a personal ad, that could
make a difference:
- Always, reveal your age correctly
from the start as honesty and trust is the most important factor
for a successful online dating relationship.
- Describe
yourself accurately. Doesnt matter what it is the
question(height, weight, religion, etc..), give accurate
answers. Dont try to draw a perfect profile as nobody wants a
perfect date but a genuine date.
- Be clear about why are
you here, what you're looking for in that dating site.
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Dont go into to much detail what kind of match you're looking
for too early as you dont want to eliminate matches so early in
the game.
- In your words, try to show your optimistic view
of life, sound optimistic in your ad.
- Don't stuff your ad
with lots of words or a long history of yourself. Remember,
you're not writing a boring CV for a job interview, you're
trying to get the attention of your potential dates. So leave
spaces when neccessary.
- Show your sense of humour with
making a joke about yourself.
- If you have writing skills.
Try to write your personal ad like an adventure novel(Dan Brown
style if possible) which the other side cannot get enough off
but dont finish the story so soon. Leave a page for
questions.
- Leave a question mark about yourself and on the
other side, be honest, accurate, funny, serious and most
important of all mysterious.
- Check for your grammar or any
other errors before you complete your ad.
It's been researched and proven that in the new millenium,
matching success rates are hundred times more in online dating
than offline dating. But that does not mean that you'll be
successful nevertheless. Everything good in life needs a bit
effort and work. So if you really want to find your other half
and build a serious relationship you must care for the
candidates and put together a good profile with a shining
personal ad and a picture. You care for your potential matches
and they will take care of you.