STRONGER MARRIAGES AND COUPLES SWAPPING

If you're looking to talk someone into couples swapping with this article, you can go ahead and forget about it. Weaker relationships can not be helped by swinging, but solid relationships can be made stronger. If you're in a weaker relationship in which you fight or lack communication skills, then you may not want to attempt couples swapping just yet. Work on your relationship first before adding something else to the turbulent pot. Going to a marriage or couples counselor can be the best way to get your communication back on track. And as for the rest of you that are jumping into couples swapping from a strong relationship platform, you're in luck. When Strong Gets Stronger When you're confidant about you relationship, you're ready for whatever challenges lie ahead of you. It could be illness or the loss of a loved one, but no matter what, you stand beside each other and support them. When you enter into the world of swinging, you will find that your limits as to what is 'right' and 'wrong' may be tested. If one of you was brought up in a religious setting, you may have feelings of guilt. Talk through these to see if they are founded in anything that can be worked out. Perhaps you are concerned that someone else in the swinging relationship will look better or be more appealing than you--talk about it. The beauty of an already strong relationship is that you have a track record for being honest and open, so there's no need to feel that it will change when the conversation turns to swinging. And if you can talk about having sex with someone else, then whoever's turn it is to do the dishes becomes a lot less difficult. A Firm Commitment A lot of beginning couples to swinging are concerned that their commitment to each other will be altered with the addition of another person. If anything, this commitment is strengthened by the presence of someone else. How so? Not only are you arriving with your partner, having talked about exploring swinging together, but you are also giving each other permission to enjoy personal fantasies. And at the end of the evening, you go home with each other because you are a partnership, a committed partnership. Knowing that your partner always comes back to you makes your relationship stronger. There's no need to worry about them running off with anyone because they've been given the chance, but didn't take it. Marriages that are already strong, but are looking for something to spice up their sexual relations, are a great way to start couples swinging. Not only is swinging exciting and arousing, but it also uncovers any last dark corners of your relationship and shows you how strong you really are.