You've Got Mail: Sending A Great Message
So you've got your profile all set up, and you're ready to start
browsing for dates. You find some that pique interest and want
to send a message, but what do you say? These days some men have
gotten so lazy when it comes to their first impressions. Yes,
the message you send to any woman will be her first impression
of you, and of course you want it to be a positive one.
I can't tell you how many messages I've gotten that just say
"Hey baby," or "Wanna hang out?" Do you really think any woman
is going to respond to this? The answer is no. The key to
writing a good message, one that will trigger a response, is
originality. So don't copy and paste the same message and send
it to fifty different women because they will be able to tell
that it's not personal.
One way to really catch a woman's attention is by using her name
in the message. Now I don't mean repeat it ten times because
that's just creepy, but start off the message with her name.
Right from the start she'll know you actually took the time to
see what her name was. Next, try and mention something you read
in her profile (yes you need to READ her profile). If she feels
that you actually took time to sit and find out about her, she
might take the time to get to know you better, too.
In your message try avoid mentioning how you want to have sex
with her, or how hot you think she is. That is definitely a turn
off; she will instantly think you are just some pervert.
Remember, we are going for originality, and telling a girl she
is hot couldn't be less original. Also, keep your life story out
of this. You are sending her a message, which means she hasn't
said she is interested yet, so wait until she tells you she is
interested before getting into how many pets you have.
So, when sending messages to women, just remember to be
original, and personable. I guarantee you will get way more
responses and dates.
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