How to forget your boyfriend..
Sometimes you have times when you think that you're having the
worst time of your life. Nothing goes well with your boyfriend.
He doesn't understand you, he doesn't call you as much as he did
before. He doesn't share your enthusiasm while you're talking to
him. He often comes late to your rendez-vous. He even forgets to
do the things you have decided to do before. He looks careless,
and the worst, a bit bored from the relationship.
Just think for a moment, you may be attracted to him still, but
everyone has his/her own ways of living, his/her own goals and
ideas about life. Maybe you've been boring him with your
expectations all the time, anyway. The first thing to do is to
look at yourself in the mirror and find out your own faults. Try
to respect his ideas, try to think from his point of view and
make him realize that you also have your own ways of dealing
with these problems. In time, hopefully he may begin to respect
you and your ideas, and maybe you can find a way somewhere in
the middle.
If you think that your efforts are hopeless, then let him go.
May be this is all because that he's finished with the
relationship in his mind, or may be the loving feelings have
faden away. You don't have any time to lose for anyone including
him. Although it's hard to bare a separation sometimes, and it
will look like the world has come to an end, you must get
through this period with as less damage as possible.
I cannot say stop thinking about him and probably you won't stop
thinking about him for a while, anyway. Your hand will go to the
the phone each and everyday and you may not be able to stop
thinking of calling him. You'll want to hear his voice
especially the times you feel yourself lonely. That's perfectly
normal but unfortunately it's a waste of your time from your
precious, but short life. So what you must do to get over your
past relationships?
- Open a brand new page in your life.
- Remember all the endings are like a closing door which is
opening a new window to your beginnings.
- Concentrate on yourself. Never stay at home listening to
romantic songs that reminds you of him.
- Try not to visit the places that you used to go together.
- Get rid of the photos, and delete his number from your mobile.
That will help you stay away from the thought of calling him.
- Meet new people. Make new friends.
- Try to date with new guys frequently, but avoid going out with
people that you don't really like because that will remind you
how good you were with your ex.
- Find these dates through online dating which would
be easy and effortless for you.
- Find yourself new hobbies that can keep you occupied and busy.
Devote yourself to your work. - Let the time sweep away those
memories and feelings from your heart.
You must know in your life, there's only one person, you can
control, yourself. You cannot control anyone other than yourself
and sometimes things happen as it shouldnt happen. Some
happenings occur to put us to advantage and sometimes we'll
discover later in our lives. All you have to do is to decide
what to do with the time thats given to you. Let go of your life
or grab hold of it.
Remember my friend, yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery.
You and only you can change it to your favour.