The Truth About Dating Today's Sexy Women

I received a very interesting email from a man regarding how to deal with what he calls "today's new breed of woman"-- sexy women who expect men to be subservient and submissive. I get a lot of emails on this topic, many from men comparing American women to foreign women, complaining that American women are too domineering to deal with. Is this true? Does "today's sexy women" really want a wimp for a man... or is there something else going on? Read on to discover the surprising answer... "John, I have read much of your information with interest. You always emphasize having authority with women. But my question is: what about today's dominant sexy women? Many women of today are dominant and expect and require a man to take the submissive and subservient role. To these new breed of women, a dominant man is anathema! These attractive, sexy women expect a man to play 'second fiddle,' even to cater to their every whim. It is their way or the highway! But how do I approach today's dominant women without appearing too needy? And even more how do I get on intimate terms with them? I have known some dominant women but I have never gotten intimate with them. They have used me as a play toy, a personal chore and errand boy at their beck and call with nothing to show for it in the end. Thanks, Tom" Tom is misinterpreting "dominance" here--today's women absolutely do NOT want a submissive, subservient man. They want a man who defines authority, and acts like, well, a MAN. The problem is, there are so many wimpy, wussy, whiney little boys out there, that very desireable, sexy women who are approached 5 times a day, are forced to come up with a testing mechanism to separate the "men from the boys." Imagine being approached 5 times a day by guys, and the time and energy it would take to reject them all? What they do is, they test men by seeing if they'll act submissive and subservient. The instant the "man" does, he's classified as a wuss, and the woman will continue to see how far she can push the envelope, hoping and praying for some display of authority. But, in today's society where men are raised to be pansies and whiners, sexy women often never get it, becoming more and more frustrated. However, when you demonstrate authority early on, and let her know in a naughty, funny, yet firm way that her tests are for wimps and whiners, an amazing thing happens--she's attracted to you and appreciates the authority you've given her. Lookit, I've met and dated a lot of sexy women other guys consider "dominant" and in talking to and spending time with these women all of them say the same thing--"I just want to find a MAN." Are today's women a bit more assertive? Sure--but all that means is that you, as a man, be more assertive and authoritative in return. Unfortunately, most "men" today go the opposite way, putting on the diapers and crying for Mommy because a woman was "mean" to them. Probably the most misunderstood subject in today's world is authority--many men mistake authority for abuse of authority, or are uncomfortable with the subject altogether. The truth is, authority is simply the art of getting other people to want to do what you want them to do, and can be learned by any man. The bad news is, there are few places to learn it, the good news is, I have a system that will teach it to you, and I highly recommend you get your hands on it. Look, I have never met a sexy woman, no matter how assertive she seems on the outside, who doesn't respond to true authority by a man, especially one who lets her know he recognizes her tests, and they don't wash with him. In my mind, there is no better opportunity than when you meet the so called "new breed of woman" because when you know how to deal with her tests, and demonstrate that to her, she'll do anything to please you and keep you happy in return. Why? Because she knows her chances of finding that in another man in today's Age of the Wuss are between slim and none. -John Alanis "The King of Let 'em Come to You"