What to do if a sexy woman makes fun of you?
Every now and then I'll get an email from a guy telling me how a
sexy woman made fun of him, and that now he's afraid to talk to
women because they might make fun of him. Or, I'll hear from a
guy who's unhappy in his relationship because his wife or
girlfriend makes fun of him.
What should you do if a sexy woman makes fun of you? The answer
might surprise you, because a woman making fun of you can
actually be a good thing, not a crushing blow to your
confidence... IF you understand it for what it is.
First off, I'll tell you a little secret about myself. Sexy
women make fun of me all the time. Yep, every single day they
have something to say, something that makes fun of me. And you
know what? I like it! Why? Because it gives me an opportunity to
1) let her know that whatever she says about me bothers me not
in the least and 2) poke fun back at her to the point where
we're both having a good time.
When you develop a strong, attractive self image, there's
nothing anyone can say that's going to impact you in any way.
Who cares if a woman has something negative to say about
you--when you can create attraction on demand, there's always
plenty of sexy women with good things to say.
Also, understand this: when a sexy woman "makes fun" of you,
it's simply a test to see how you'll respond. She's testing to
see if your self image is strong enough to be made fun of, she's
testing to see if you have a sense of humor that will make her
laugh in return, and she's testing for authority in you to see
if you can take it (and give it) without any impact on your
emotional state whatsoever.
Most guys fail this test because they get pissed, or start to
whine or take any other action that shows they have a weak self
image. When you can easily pass it by making a naughty comment
back, and poking fun at her (in a good spirited way) you'll
create attraction for her most other guys can't.
So, if a woman makes fun of you, see it for what it is: an
opportunity to create attraction. She wouldn't be talking to you
if she at least didn't have some initial interest.