Is there any truth to "subliminal seduction?"
When I was in junior high, my best friend at the time (Kyle
McMenamy--wonder what ever happened to him?), showed up with a
book he thought was the most amazing thing he'd ever read. It
was entitled, "Subliminal Seduction" and it went on to describe
how advertisers deliberately placed "subliminal images" in their
ads that literally hypnotized people into buying.
The author (who I'm too lazy to look up) "proved" how a plate of
fried clams was actually full of pictures of people having an
orgy, how a beer commercial really was driven by images of oral
fun, and all kinds of other exciting stories. Of course as
junior high kids we ate it all up, and went around hunting for
"subliminal seduction images" wherever we could find them. It
was a lot of fun, but the only image I could ever see was the
naked guy on the box of camel cigarettes. Supposedly there was a
naked woman too, but I could never see that one, no matter how
many different ways I looked.
Ahhhh, how I wish all of that stuff was true!
Why am I telling you all this? Here's why: I get questions every
now and then from guys who want my opinions on "psychic ways to
meet women," "relationships as energy," and "magick."
Personally, I have no problem with any of those things with one
exception: they just don't produce anywhere near the seduction
results of actually talking with a woman.
Now, I've had some experiences that could only be termed
"energetic" and I hope to have more. But none of these things
are anywhere near as effective as doing the tried and true
seduction techniques that get women to approach you, and these
things all involve, at some level, interacting with a live woman.
Being a fun, unpredictable, naughty boy who she never knows what
you're going to say or do next is a bazillion times more
effective than any "psychic" or "energetic" method I've heard
of. Running a well written profile on the online dating services
will get more women to approach you than any "ritual" you can
perform. Becoming a dynamic public speaker may not give you
psychic abilities, but it'll dang sure get women to fight over
you. When it comes to the seduction of desireable women,
demonstrating authority never seems to fail.
My point is this: there are a certain set of male behaviors that
get results with women, and outside of that, the efficiency of
everything else is so low as to be non-existent. I think
"energy" and "psychic senses" and "clairvoyance" are pretty dang
cool, but I put them in the same category as "subliminal
seduction." A lot of fun, but that's it.
If you want to be successful with women, just stick to the
narrow set of behaviors that's been proven to work, and avoid
everything else. When you think about it like that, it's
actually kind of boring, but the seduction results sure ain't.
To use a football analogy, it's like the difference between a
"good loss" and an "ugly win." I'll take the ugly win 100% of
the time.