Do Pick-up Lines Really Work?

Ask any woman and she'll answer "No" before you even finish the question. With The typical assortment of 'pick-up lines' floating around, who can blame her. Stuff like "What's your sign?" and "Was your father a thief..." (I can't even type the rest of that one) Truly the squirm-in-your-chair, cheesy pick-up line is dead. Observe guys who are successful at meeting women, however, and you'll notice an interesting pattern. These men have been at it a long time, and will often repeat the same topics over and over again in conversation with different women. They will tell the same stories, flirt, in the same way, and even use the seam 'line' to start a conversation. This works because it's well rehearsed and consistent with his personality. Because he doesn't have to worry about what he's going to say next, he can focus on what really matters - the reaction of the girl he is talking with. And no, they don't start with worn-out 'resume' questions like "Where are you coming from?" and "Where do you work?" These men have the confidence to talk about stuff that is unique and intriguing, and you can too. How about a personal 'embarrassing moment' story, a story that brings up interesting relationship questions, or even a racy story about an adventurous friend. Don't worry if these are not the topics you would normally tell to attractive women - that's the point! The idea is to stand out and be different. You want to show that you are comfortable having edgy conversation with women. Most importantly, don't be afraid to practice. It's interesting to me that while girls love talking to a guy who can provide memorable conversation, many guys shudder at the prospect of actually thinking (or, god forbid, rehearsing!) something fun to talk about. Some men seem to think it's 'manipulative' to learn the skill of attracting women. Some are too macho to admit they could use improvement in this area. Worst of all, some think that this might mean covering up their true personality and trying to be something they aren't (this never works by the way). The truth is that investing time learning how to attract the opposite sex is much more natural for women than it is for men. Most women learned how to attract the opposite sex in high school or earlier, and spent a lot of time figuring it out. Decades later, women are still waiting for guys to get with the program. So get out there guys, and figure out where you want the conversation to go. Find some unique, interesting stories from your life and put some personality into them. Rehearse what you're going to say, and practice it on as many girls as possible. Just make sure it doesn't sound like a pick-up line.