What Makes a Man Sexy
What makes a man appealling? Is it his dashing good looks? Is it
his rock-hard pecs and abs of steel? Or is it his smile and his
personality that takes the top plum? In a society where everyone
seems aesthetically astute, it's difficult to validate this
question for sure. Sexiness is a very subjective matter and is
very relative at that. It holds inconsonant views from each
individual just as everyone squabbles over tastes in clothes and
food. Hence, a universal answer to this blown-up question is an
illusion. Nonetheless, having met men from all walks of life
with radical tastes and personalities, I think I can provide
authentic down-to-earth revelations regarding this subject.
So what makes a man sexy? Take your whiffs off the following:
1. Masculinity
There is more to a man than his firm butt and washboard abs.
True, what a woman first notices is his anatomical assets but
what lingers in her mind is not all that. It's his inherent
masculinity. It's in the way he languidly struts across the room
with a show of adequacy and grace and the way he flashes the
glint in his eyes that ultimately creates the spark. It's also
in the manner that he moves and talks that keeps women's eyes
riveted at him. Being masculine does not merely suggest
flaunting a large build or a protective quality but having this
natural instinctive masculine self to trigger women's
instinctive feelings of attraction.
2. Smile
A natural sweet smile is one of the greatest attraction of a
man. It exudes an aura of congeniality and establishes charisma
presence. It also breaks a woman's resistance and communicates
hidden messages without any verbal language. This is why a man
who is generous with his smile is guaranteed to maintain a
women-magnet profile!
3. Eye contact
A man who knows how to have eye contact is a man who knows how
to communicate. Women just like men are absolute attention
seekers. They want men to listen and to take heed of the things
they say. Thereupon, they demand affirmation. Eye contact is a
way of ratifying. It makes a woman feel sufficiently attended to
and cared for. Eye contact makes women feel so extremely special
that they tend to sometimes melt right on the spot.
4. Confidence
Confidence makes a man. There's just something about the appeal
of wealth and power that women can't resist. Antithetical to how
most people view it, giving off that commanding vibe isn't
always dependent on one's bank account. Men can actually take on
that aura of authority just by moving through life with an air
of self-assurance and a boost of self-esteem.
5. Aromatic sense
If a man is a making of a heartthrob onscreen and is a hunk on a
ramp but stinks, he definitely goes down the cutthroat world. No
woman likes a man who smells a bit too ripe like he just spent
24 hours locked in the bathroom. If a man looks good and smells
even better, women are bound to swarm around him.
6. Sense of Style
Some men just don't seem the type to go with the fashion trend.
But it does not mean that they are passe. Some just have their
own personal preferences and resist the lure of punked-up
garments. Actually, it's not the clothes that make a man sexy.
It's how he carries his apparel with confidence and ease that
does. Clothes don't entice women, it's the man that makes those
clothes look good in him that wiles them.
7. Communication skills
Intellect is a factor in today's attraction equation. We are in
such a competitive world that anyone without it is immediately
slighted. But intellect without communication skills is not an
attractive product. Conversational skills are necessary for any
man to win the tilt. He must know when and how to start up a
conversation and carry it on 'til it tapers off. He should not
patronize women and is not so full of himself. It is believed
that if a man is able to stimulate a woman's brain juices in a
conversation, it is likely that he can stimulate her other
juices as well.
8. Sensitivity
Sensitivity is sexy but too much sensitivity is feminity. So
where do we draw the line? When we talk about sensitivity on the
right scale, it means having a sense of empathy, confidentiality
and trust rolled into one. When a woman confides something, a
man's initial reaction is to help her find a solution or fix it
himself. This is not sensitivity. When a woman expresses her
feelings, she just needs an ear to insorb the steam out of her
being. A sexy man sees this through and gets women everytime. 9.
Sense of Humor
Laughter releases chemicals that create a sense of well-being,
which is a wonderful turn-on. A man equipped with a good sense
of humor automatically wins his points on the sexy scale with
women. With the mighty use of his expression and wits combined,
he becomes an addiction that women just can't get enough of.
Women think that if he can evoke them with laughter in public,
chances are he can also make them giggle in bed.
10. Oddity
Extrinsic and intrinsic personal abilities and traits that are
considered unique and superior by a woman's biology and also by
the society to which she identifies with are, to varying
extents, very charming to the female species. If a man has the
gift of music or have potential fancy footwork or simply has art
at his fingertips, he can charm his way anywhere. A mysterious
facade that keeps her intrigued and guessing is also deemed
bewitching. But a man's resistance to a woman's seduction is
considered the prime. It's effects are naturally ingrained into
the "sex" part of a woman's brain that it drives her motors
purring all the time.
What makes a man sexy is but everything about him and even
more. Whether it be on the surface or skin deep, it's just a
matter of projection. Every man is sexy in their own ways. They
just have to feel that in themselves so the seething sexiness
comes out of them naturally.