Bondage Safety and Guidelines

With all sexual activities, safety should always be the first thing on the list. This holds true for Bondage as well. If you are looking to engage in bondage and have some concerns, read the guidelines and safe practices associated with bondage. It could make the difference between a night of sexual indulgence or a night of utter fright and pain.
Flogging:
Spanking your partner can be fun and erotic for the both of you. It is total turn on for some people to spank their partners, however, there are some general rules that you should consider before spanking.

When spanking you need know your boundaries. Communicate with your partner and find out what she likes and dislikes, if this is your first time start off light, then gradually make the strikes more intense. This will help the two of you know each others limitations, and make the spankings more enjoyable.
Make sure you incorporate a safe word, this way if the play goes to far, the word is said and the action is to stop. This is very important, especially when try new things.
Never strike directly on the bone of your partner. This is extremely painful. Also, other areas that should never be spanked are the neck and the lower back. It is a good idea not to strike behind the knees either. There are main blood arteries there that could be damaged.
Make sure any of the sexual aids that you will be using for the spankings meet both you and your partners approval. It is best whey you both pick out the toys, and not to just spring it up on your partner. They may not like it, and it would have been just a waist of money.
Practice with your sex toys, strike yourself with it and see how it feels, remember the intensity of the strike so you know how hard to strike for the same result. Of course, everyone's pain threshold is different, so you still need to proceed with caution in this area. Just make sure you know the toy and how to use it before bringing it into play.
Restraining