The Importance of Housegroups
The writer of the letter to the Hebrews in Chapter 10 verse 25
says, "Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the
habit of doing, but let us encourage one another - and all the
more as you see the Day approaching."
One of the ways in which we can do this is to belong to a
housegroup. So what is a housegroup? Generally speaking a
housegroup is a small group of Christians who meet together
during the week in someone's home to study the Bible, pray,
encourage one another and to build up relationships in the body
of Christ. Although the sizes of groups will vary they often
would have between 6 to 12 members. Once a group grows beyond
this number then it might be wise to split the group and to form
two separate groups.
Bible study is very often a key feature of the group. One of the
advantages of a housegroup is that the group can study the Bible
together and members can discuss how the passage they are
studying is relevant to their everyday life. There is also the
opportunity for people to ask questions about anything they do
not understand in the passage. Generally speaking when we are
listening to the sermon on Sunday it's not normal practise to
interupt the preacher and ask them questions if we don't
understand the talk! However, in the privacy of an individuals
home there is the chance to ask questions. And often we find
that other people may have the same questions as us too.
Discussing a passage together in this manner can be very
benefical because we get onto real issues that concern people
and we can discuss them to a depth that is not always possible
on a Sunday.
What's the best Bible study for our group to do you may ask?
Well there are literally hundreds of very good Bible study
booklets available. Some people like to discuss subjects for
example: Women of the Bible; whilst others may like to study a
particular book of the Bible. Some churches will do a study
based on the current theme of the sermons that are being
preached at their Sunday services. If you are not sure what to
study in your group a visit your local Christian bookshop to see
what they have in stock or chat to your Church leaders.
Another advantage of the housegroup is that you can share prayer
needs within the group and pray for one another. Whilst your
Church leaders would probably be happy to pray for you on Sunday
the opportunity for this may not arise. If you belong to a
larger Church then there might be too many prayer needs for
everyone to be prayed for on Sunday. However, in a small group
you can share your needs and ask for prayer. One of the groups I
used to be a member of would have a "sharing and pray" evening
from time to time. We would go around the group saying how life
was treating us and mention any prayer needs we might have. The
other members of the group would then pray about the issues
raised and then we would go onto the next person. (In that
Church the housegroups were known as "Support Groups" which was
an appropriate title). These were important meetings as we could
be honest with the group and share disappointments or struggles
we were having as well as praising God for the good things in
our life.
Sometimes group members may have personal prayer requests which
whilst they are happy to share with the group they would not
want the rest of the Church to know about. Housegroups is the
ideal place to do this.
Many people do find praying in public scary. They worry about
getting the words wrong or drying up. However, praying in a
housegroup can be a good place to practice and build up one's
confidence. It's often a good idea to write down the items you
prayer about so that when you meet together again you can see if
the prayer has been answered yet. It can be very encouraging for
the housegroup to see God answering the prayers they pray.
Another benefit from attending a housegroup is getting to know
your fellow Christians better. It can be daunting for anyone who
is quiet or shy to get to know people in a big Church. However,
a housegroup offers a good opportunity to get to know people in
the comfort of someone's home. This is one of the things I have
gained from the housegroup of which I'm currently a member. In
other housegroups I have attended at previous Churches I have
been fortunate to build up some great friendships as a result of
cultivating them through the housegroup.
If you do not currently belong to a group I would strongly
encourage you to consider seriously joining one. Not only will
it benefit you but you too can also be a blessing to the group
and the Body of Christ.