Make 2006 a great success wherever you are
The definition of success may be different for every person, but
when getting to grips with the term, essentially it is about who
you are, and who you are becoming. It is about living up to your
potential and achieving your dreams. Your success is what will
bring you a life of contentment, pride and enthusiasm in your
accomplishments.
Too often than not though, we make lists of goals we want to
achieve, but the list remains on the nightstand or kitchen
table. The words do not move from the page and success seems to
elude us. Regardless of what success means to you, there are
strategies for making it all happen and come true for you. It is
not as difficult as it may seem and is not only meant for
certain people.
Are there goals you want to reach in your host country? Are
there dreams you want to see happen before repatriation? I have
spoken to expatriates who had such high hopes of using their
years abroad to their fullest potential, but leave the borders
feeling deflated and wishing they had used their time more
successfully. If this is you right now, you can still make it
all happen for you by applying some easy strategies that work if
followed consistently and with enthusiasm.
Take action and move. Move both physically and spiritually. It
could be as easy as buying a book you have been wanting to read,
but get off the couch and move. If you don't move you fall
behind and then it takes double the amount of effort to play
"catch up". In other words - actively pursue your dreams and get
into action. Write down your goals. Be as literary as you need
to be and put pen to paper writing down in detail exactly what
it is you want to achieve and what kind of life you want to
live. To ensure that you do not set yourself up for failure,
make the goals specific, measurable and hold yourself
accountable. You do not have to do this alone, ask a friend,
spouse or colleague to help you be accountable if need be and if
that works for you. Remain open to possibilities, suggestions
and support from others and be creative. Be careful not to shut
yourself off to new ideas, new thinking, new challenges and new
experiences. One never knows what opportunities may be waiting
behind closed doors. Embrace all the "luck" that comes your way
once you get into action. It is true that that Life rewards
effort exponentially, no matter how small the effort or how
challenging the obstacles. So, do not be afraid to visualize
your highest goals and stay on a path of action to achieve them.
Suggestion for setting goals
Set goals that are yours and not someone else's dream for you.
It may sound selfish, but it is essential to you following
through. Before setting your goals, take time to look at your
thoughts and beliefs. Self-awareness is the key to making the
best choices.
Some key areas in which you might consider writing your goals,
if you have not already, include: family, spirituality, career,
interests, lifestyle, financial, self-growth, health and
well-being.
Give a plus to each of these areas you are happy with and a
minus to each of the areas you are unhappy with at this present
time. Choose one of the minus areas you are most unhappy with
and make your beginning here. This is your first step to a
happier and more successful YOU.
Quote of the week
"Success means having the courage, the determination and the
will to become the person you believe you were meant to be."
George Sheehan