Better than Plenty of Messenger Boys
This morning, the Internet connected me to my friends, although
today the News was mostly bad. Firstly, some friends of mine and
I are planning to get together tomorrow and I was figuring out
what time to meet. I emailed my friends at ten twenty two am, to
say 'Let's meet at six pm'. At ten thirty five am, one of them
emailed me back that he'd been downsized, and so could make it
as early as we liked. I emailed my condolences, glad for the
speed and ease when connecting with my friends via the Internet.
His email at quarter to nine am said nothing about being
downsized so he must only have found out about it this morning,
less than two hours before he told us.
Before telephones and computers came to be, swift communication
would have been reserved for only those who could afford to send
letters to each other and employ messenger boys. Although on the
other hand, before England had telephones I gather the mail
service was so efficient that you could send an invitation at
breakfast, and expect a letter in response the same day. Even
that doesn't compare with getting an answer in thirteen minutes,
and learning about major events in a friend's life in less than
two hours.
After receiving that bad News, and then my small consolation of
joy at being so connected to my friends, I read more bad News in
another friend's blog and discovered that I'm less connected
than I thought. My blogger friend is worried he suffers from
depression and might be an alcoholic. According to his blog he
can't talk to his friends about it, including me. I wonder if he
knows that some of his friends read his blog. Like most blog
pages this one allows comments so I anonymously offered some
advice and encouraged him to talk to his friends. I'm curious if
what I said will give away who I am. Later on I had a discussion
about him and his blog with another friend over a messenger
program.
Sadly the world is both kind and cruel, filled with both joy and
sorrow. So, if you can connect with anyone, anywhere, anytime,
you will get bad News as quickly and clearly as you get good
News. Although you will, I hope, always get good News more often.