Whether you're a husband or a wife, take a look at these top ten suggestions (one list for men, one for women) for couples who want to heat things up from the kitchen to the bedroom. These lists have some of the most tried and true methods for romancing your spouse. But the most important things you should do is ask your partner what he/she likes, be creative, and have fun!

For Wives

1. Give him something to think about. Try saucy emails or pictures of you in your sexiest lingere and label them "For Your Eyes Only". A sure way to make him want you all day long.

2. Take some initiative. Don't make him be the one to get the party started all of the time.

3. Don't talk him to death. Just show him that you're available. Preferably, not during the game or an important business call.

4. Wear your best smelling perfume--preferably one that he gave you.

5. Wear the lingere you had on in the photo.

6. Dance for him. Belly, pole, or lap: figure out which one your husband would most appreciate.

7. Create a romantic environment. You should go out of your way to make the palce look and smel really nice, but at the very least, clear the kids toys and clothes out of your bedroom. Make sure the house is in order.

8. Don't make him guess what you want. He's not a mind reader.

9. Be adventurous (to the level you're comfortable with). Be considerate of his fantasies, but don't be foolish.

10. Have fun, and let him KNOW you're having fun.

For Husbands

1. Arrange to cook dinner or have it prepared professionally. And, if you don't do it normally, wash the dishes.

2.Draw a nice warm bubble bath for her. Adding rose petals is a nice touch.

3. Join her in the bathtub.

4. Massage her whole body. Not just for ten minutes. Take your time. Pay special attention to her back, legs, and feet.

5. Make her feel beautiful, and TELL her she is. Pamper her: wash/brush her hair, do her nails or treat her to the salon before your time together.

6. Wear your most intoxicating fragrance, preferably one that she gave you.

7. Dance with her (or for her) depending upon how brave you are. When the dance is finished, you should be wearing only a smile.

8. Feed her strawberries, chocolate, whipped cream, and a bubbly beverage.

9. Don't underestimate chick flicks. If you think you can gleen any ideas from them, do it. No one has to know except you and Blockbuster/Netflix.

10. Try not to watch the clock. You have all the time in the world. So focus on her and act like time is standing still.

Now that you have some inspiration, what are you waiting for? Get off the computer! It's time you and your honey start fanning the flames!

Keishia Lee-Louis is the Editor of http://www.Married4Good.com (Launching November 2005). Her work has appeared on iVillage.com, BibleResourceCenter.com, and in numerous other publications. Currently, she is writing a book on marriage and relationships(Spring 2006). If you'd like to see more of her work, visit http://married4good.blogspot.com