The Circle Of Life - The Balance In Life
Balance can be hard to achieve with a long commute, a
challenging career, families at home, recreational activities,
education goals, and health concerns. Some areas will need more
attention at times than others, but overall, what we are trying
to achieve is a healthy balance so we can live a successful
life.
The Circle of Life is a tool that allows you to see where your
successes are and where more effort might be put to make the
rhythm easy and smooth. Go through sections of your life and
score them based on your satisfaction in that area. This gives
you a visual representation of how your life is balanced. Try
picturing the circle as a wheel - would it move smoothly or is
it bumping along the road? You may need to take some action
steps to smooth out the lines of the circle. If you can look at
this as the picture of your life, and commit to making changes,
some small, some large, life will become rhythmic and satisfying
to you. But it takes an assessment such as this and a commitment
to the needed change.
Once you have this clearer view on life that allows you to see
where you need to balance, create a plan and a commitment to
making those necessary changes. Getting overwhelmed and
discouraged happens to us all. Take on small changes at first
and, once you see results, it will be easier to tackle the
bigger changes.
Try using the Circle of Life weekly so you can see the steps
that you are making to achieve balance in your life. You may
even notice that sometimes your life will be unbalanced in areas
that you weren't aware of before, and this will allow you to
make changes in those areas as well. The reinforcement of seeing
the numbers inch up can be very motivating. Later, you might
redo the Circle quarterly or yearly as a check-up. Have fun with
this as you gain control of your time, your goals and your life.
The Circle of Life worksheet is available through
Commuter-Assist.com. To request it, please send an email to
info@commuter-assist.com with 'Circle of Life' in the subject
line.