To Circumcise or Not to Circumcise?
It is logical to assume that if we randomly pull two women from
a crowded street and interview them, one of them might say that
she prefers a circumcised man while the other may claim that she
wants it otherwise.
Going back on the age-old question, which do women prefer:
circumcised or uncircumcised? I had an opportunity to meet Jane
(not her real name), a communication student in a southern
college. According to her, she prefers her partner to be uncut.
"Although I do base my opinion of a man on his big head, not his
little one, I have to say that uncircumcised is better because
there is more variation. Playing with the skin is like an added
benefit, it feels comfortable while he is thrusting also. From
my experience, cut penises tends to rub too hard and too much. A
little friction is good, but too much can be quite painful.
Uncut guys give just the right amount of friction and I like the
way the skin moves back and forth in my mouth."
Meanwhile, Alex a customer service representative prefers
circumcised men mainly for hygienic reasons as well as sexual
ones. "Based on my previous encounters, cleanliness is important
because the penis tastes, smells, and looks more appealing.
Plus, spur-of-the-moment sexual activity is more enjoyable with
a man who is circumcised, because bathing efforts last for
longer periods of time."
As far as statistics are concerned however, a one-to-one profile
will be meaningless. We need to go to a bigger perspective. The
bottom line of course is the woman's personal preferences but
considerations on health should not be ignored. On one point, we
have pain and shock; and on the other hand, we have pleasure and
cleanliness. Women's preferences in this subject have
undoubtedly become more pertinent nowadays than let us say, two
decades ago. During that long-ago era, about 90% of the male
population in the Western world underwent circumcision but since
then, a lot of lobbying has been done to stop this tradition. To
date, only about 60% are circumcised for non-religious reasons.
So what are the reasons why women would prefer a circumcised
man? If we based it on actual studies, one would be because it
moves more smoothly during sex and as a result, both parties
derive more enjoyment. Another is on the usage of condoms. Those
who are uncircumcised would find it difficult keeping a condom
on during actual sex.
In one particular survey conducted by a team of experts, 57% of
the respondents said that they preferred circumcised penis
because it looked more attractive. On the other hand, 33%
preferred the other side. However, out of those unaccounted yet,
11 women said that their ideal male organ would be natural. Let
us count out the anti-circumcision lobbyers and the remaining
would be six respondents. Six whose "ideal penis" is untouched,
so as far as this study is concern, the conviction that men in
general are in favor of circumcision is highly exaggerated.
Still on this survey, with regard to oral sex, circumcision
reigns supreme. About 80% of men who accepted oral sex were
circumcised while the rest were not. Moreover, another study
showed that circumcised men gave out more sexual contentment to
the women. Among heterosexual men who engaged in sex at least
once a month, it was concluded that 83% of those circumcised
claimed that their partners achieved the orgasmic state while
the remaining 17% claimed that their women did not. Of the
uncircumcised, 53% claimed that their bed partners usually
achieved climax and 47% revealed never or occasionally.
Before boring you to death with tons of figures, these
significant comparative studies done over the years are still
assumptions and nowhere near a conclusion. The general statement
from women all over England, Singapore, North America, and other
places is that circumcised penis wins.
Why did I say that we could safely assume but not definitely
conclude? To carve it in stone would be too risky, indeed. There
are other studies (done by equally intelligent and capable
professionals) that concluded in favor of the uncircumcised. The
outcome of these researches is that women are actually more at
ease with what they are better acquainted with (and that is the
natural). In one of these, what came out was a highly
interesting piece of data that bulldozes the belief that
circumcised men give "better sex" to women. This study said that
73% of the respondents said that "natural" men thrust more
lightly and that their (the women's) clitoris was in fact better
"caressed," obviously indicating that they enjoyed the sex more.
As far as the definite answer is concerned, the jury is still
out although all things considered, we can fearlessly say that
the circumcised still holds the edge.