Safety First Or Who Is Responsible?
Lets sort it out. There are a lot of scammers on the net. What
is the solution? Actually you may relax and start search
somewhere nearer to your house. No need to worry or doubt or
being anxious.
Is this the decision you take?
Ok, then this article is not exactly of your highest interest.
Whether you finally decide to become online dating agency member
and start search somewhere on the other side of the world. Lucky
you are! Courage and patience be your guides...
You positively do not need any instructions and the heart will
bring you to the door of your sweetheart that has been waiting
for the whole life..."Picturesque view from out the window of
your built-together home, kids, outrageous devotion and love,
love, love together...
This could be true if you are sleeping. Now get up and face the
reality. Dating online is just the same lottery as we have here
in real life. Don't be confused with the number of shining faces
popping out of the screen while browsing profiles. This
definitely means NOTHING. There is still no guarantee that
you'll be lucky enough to find your exact match. Judging the
amount of people applying to dating services and club, I can
swear that they believe that their chances rise up to the sky.
Getting down to earth I'm not that optimistic though I have to
admit the chances slightly rise. Ok, whatever we should do if we
can't do anything about that, lets go on and date online!
Who we are, men involved into that desperate dating procedure?
Mostly we are romantics and this gives us either chance to be
distinctive from the rest men's world. (Romantic men are mostly
dinosaurs in real life) Or opens vulnerable sides that are easy
to approach. We can remain innocent being scammed several times,
take time to recover and step again fighting the fate.
Romantic origin and (should we have hidden that) the lust
towards the long-legged, blue eyed, sincere, family oriented
creatures gives a unique scamming opportunities. No need to
investigate the essences and consequences.
Aiming to focus positive results of dating search, I'm sharing
the following: - Don't expect anything from your partner and
don't try to frame her into a certain dream standards. Believe
me that the real person you are going to meet at the destination
airport is much more interesting than ever of your dreams.
- Be enthusiastic and extraordinary
- Don't mix up true interest of a potential partner with the
so-called "material benefits" - flowers, sweets, gifts. Inspire
her with your personality, views, ideas. Don't try to impress
her and look better making her blind with the gifts. This could
cause a great disappointment and lost of hope, nothing to say
about expenses. Surely, flowers are good for special events and
occasions nothing to say that meanness is the worst men's
quality after the cowardice and stupidity.
- Doubt her, starting point is that you don't know her and her
expectations. She may force herself but life brings everything
to initial places. Unless you want to discover true
disappointment in her eyes when she meet you personally.
- Be careful with her feeling though don't forget yours. Suspect
her, but do that secretly - don't show that you are jealous or
suspicious. Give her time to show up. You'll see what she wants
and expects.
- Be demanding - this is ok if you're focused positively.
- Don't judge hastily - remember you've never seen her and you
are separated by kilometers. Maybe she is tired, maybe she's
upset and doesn't want to share that. Women are special
creatures that we never understand. So, give her time - show how
patient you can be at times!
- Don't make pressure, or force her or ask where she's been for
the whole weekend when you tried to reach her
- just leave this as it is unless it happens regularly. So, she
appreciates your self-confidence.
- Make investments into future relationships - evening/morning
SMS are fine, shot calls for letting know that you think of her
- great!
- Forget that you don't want to talk much - reveal your
colloquial talents. This is solely the pure source you can
implement while dating online. Tell about your feelings, maybe
plants for today's evening, etc - just realize that she can't
feel that just looking into your eyes.
- If this is suspicious online, believe me - this is worth being
suspicious. Don't be blind. This will lead you to the deep
disappointment. Leave the idea of justifying her deeds, words
etc - leave that as it is and time will show. Don't be active in
revealing the truth otherwise you'll be absorbed with
destructive emotions. Just leave it to her actions.
- Use any net means to find out everything about the potential
sweetheart. There are plenty of sources that provide qualified
information about scammers etc. At last order address validation
with flowers delivery. They will check whether she lives there
or not. (But be informed that sometimes they tell that the
delivery is done while it's not. And there is no means to find
out the truth. Both sides can lie, the delivery company that the
address is valid and the lady can keep silent that she didn't
get any flowers just to hide her inner intentions to scam you.
So, trust reliable companies who value their reputation and
would better refund the money after the address validation
instead of misinform you.) To summarize everything said above,
keep your eyes open, don't mix up real interest with the
intention of gain benefits from you, be suspicious all the time
until you bring her on fiancee visa, be enthusiastic and
interesting.
So you'll enjoy your time online and remember this time when you
are together with the "view from out of the window, kids,
devotion and love, love, love together...