Positive attitude
Highly successful people exhibit an impeccable attitude of
positive behavior and there is nothing these people cant achieve
in their life. There is absolutely nothing they cannot aspire to
be and there is simply nothing they cannot possess! These people
are the masters of positive attitude, a self realized energy
that propels them towards the path of greatness. You can do
whatever you want if you have the power of positive attitude.
How you steer your life, depends on how you adjust your
attitude; a positive attitude will help you develop a successful
career, while a negative attitude will create more problems in
your personal life.
Attitude is a state of your mind; it also tests your patience
and stress. If you handle your stress with optimism and hope,
you'll come out of the clutches of despair and hopelessness. A
positive attitude will also ensure that you stay optimistic in
whatever do you do and perform in your life. Optimists are
effective in countering any form of stress or problem to emerge
as ultimate winners, while a pessimist is likely to deny the
existence of problem and run away from the source of problem as
well. An optimist invariably becomes successful in achieving his
cherished goals, while a pessimist can never hope to become
successful, because of his negative attitude.
More often the trait of positive attitude is developed from the
time we are adolescent A person shows a high degree of positive
attitude, if he/she grows in an environment, that is highly
positive and immensely hopeful. People with a positive attitude
always look at things very positively and respond to any tricky
situation with positive answers like, Yes, I can do it, It is
achievable, It is perfectly possible and I am capable. While
negatively inclined people always complain about people and
situations and are always pessimistic in what ever they think
and do.
If you have been showing an extreme negative attitude in your
life and always expecting failure and tragedies, it is now the
right time to alter the way you think and behave. It is also a
correct time to get rid of those negative thoughts and behavior
and achieve cherished goals for a happy life. Here are some of
the suggested ways to get rid of those bad, negative feelings
and develop right attitude and positive mindset, in their place:
1. When you see the signs of a negative attitude or feelings
creeping in your mind, say STOP; instead start visualizing those
vividly beautiful pictures of success and contentment.
2. Experts suggest a novel way of stopping negative thoughts
from your mind. Though this method is a bit difficult to master,
you can try them at your own leisure. Thought stopping process
involves two basic stages: a driving mechanism to shoo away all
those negative feelings and perceptions and an infiltration
mechanism whereby your negative mind is infiltrated with
positive thoughts and feelings.
3. Self talk and positive affirmations are known scientific
mind principles which can help you develop positive mindset.
Develop your own self talk and affirmation statement and start
talking to yourself on a regular basis.
4. Another unusual method is to create sticky notes with
positive statements like, I can do it, I am capable, Success is
mine and I have a purpose, and to stick them up on your car
dashboard, study table, personal diary, study room cupboard and
dining places, where you can see the message everyday and night.
5. Get acquainted with highly successful people with tangible
achievements. Right association and acquaintance will make
things easy for you to develop positive attitude.
6. Start reading all those positive self help books and
magazine. Attend to self help workshops and seminars.
Positive thoughts can only be instilled by you and not by anyone
else. It is an internal mechanism and thus it needs your effort
and dedication. It may take considerably long time, but it is
priceless when you achieve it.