How to win the Inner Game of Tennis
Do you know the ways of winning the inner game with your mind?
Timothy Gallwey developed this concept in his bestselling book
Inner Game of Tennis. You're about to find out more ways of
winning the inner game of tennis and these ways are applicable
to all other areas of life.
Inner game is actually rarely a game. How is that? Well, usually
we just listen to every thought that comes up in our
consciousness and listen to it. Like having a radio stuck to
your ear and repeating everything that you hear.
Playing a game means that you have some influence on your
opponent. But if we just listen to every thought that comes up
in our mind, then that is not a game, it's obedience.
The first step is to become detached from your mind. It's just
your mind, it's not you! It's simply releasing thoughts from the
realm of your unconsciousness and there is no end to them.
So how can you actually play the game with your mind?
Here are 5 ways you can win the inner game of your mind:
1. Fighting the mind The most typical example of fighting
the mind is when we are afraid. Courage is actually a win
against fear - and that's when we fight our mind. Our mind is
telling us something and we don't do it. There is some other
internal or external motivation that moves us through the fear.
Fighting the fear can result in a very surprising outcome if we
persist. When we are in a fearful situation and we overcome
fear, we gain some confidence. When we are confronted with that
or a similar event later, we overcome that fear more easily. We
feel that the fear is smaller. Eventually we win the internal
battle and the fear does not appear anymore. We don't need to
spend our nervous energy to overcome the fear, so then we can be
much more effective in other mental activities at that moment.
2. Tricking the mind This concept is the main idea in the
Inner Game of Tennis book. We trick the mind by focusing it on
something relevant and something interesting - seeing how the
ball is spinning or watching the flight path of the ball and
things like that.
We are playing a game with our mind and even though we know that
we'll trick the mind and the mind knows it, it still falls for
the trick. Not always but we get better with practice.
3. Listening to your mind When we develop good awareness
of our thinking, we choose what we'll believe. We choose whether
some thoughts are important or not. Again, this is not some
Indian mystical ability; we do this all the time. No? Have you
ever thought about hitting someone and you didn't? Or some guy
on the street drove in front of you and you wanted to crash in
his car? And you didn't? You chose not to follow the thoughts!
You saw how useless and damaging would that be in the long term.
That's exactly what we need to do in tennis. Hitting a winner
from 3 meters behind the baseline on the run is not a thought to
follow. If just after a bad line call a thought like this
appears: