Baby Showers - From The Man's Point Of View
You see articles about baby showers written by women all of the
time. But why not written by a man? Don't we need to know a
thing or two about baby showers too?
My wife recently hosted a baby shower for a friend, and I was
clueless on how to help her. Fortunately, I was kicked out of
the house before the actual baby shower began, but I was
involved with helping her set it up. Baby showers begin with
selecting a location and baby shower invitations. But the actual
event involves a lot more planning.
Did you know that baby showers include a cake made out of
diapers? Yeah, I thought that was strange too. But apparently
diaper cakes are one of the important centerpieces at baby
showers these days. This isn't an edible cake--but there are
plenty of deserts to be eaten. From non-diaper cakes to
appetizers to baby block-looking petit fours, it seems like
there's more than enough food to go around at a baby shower.
Of course there are usually baby shower games. These games can
be kind of silly, but they're a big hit. The women talk about
funny baby experiences they've had and bring up embarrassing
things from the mother's past. There are hundreds of web sites
devoted to various baby shower games. Do a search for "baby
shower games" an you'll be amazed and some of the games people
have invented.
Gifts are a big part of baby showers. And I mean BIG! It's
amazing how many gifts are showered upon the mother-to-be.
Although the mom usually registers for important baby gifts like
sheets and strollers, it seems that most women want to buy cute
things for the baby that aren't on the registry. Apparently
buying cute clothes and stuffed animals is more interesting than
buying sheets for the crib. It makes sense, but I hear that
moms-to-be hate this since what they really need are the basic
supplies. The mom ends up buying all of these herself.