Crunch Time ... 1 Week to Wedding Day
The following article covers a topic that has recently moved to
center stage--at least it seems that way. If you've been
thinking you need to know more about it, here's your
opportunity.
The final week before your wedding day can be a stressful time
filled with many details that need to be confirmed. Some of the
last minutes details that need to be completed in the week
before your wedding include confirming the details of your
honeymoon, packing for your honeymoon, giving the caterer a
final count for the number of guests, confirm details with the
photographer, florist, DJ or band and the limousine driver. If
the couple is hosting the rehearsal dinner, now is also the time
to confirm these arrangements. It's important to attend to all
of these tasks but it is also important to take some time to get
some rest and relaxation as well. If you have friends and family
members who are willing to help out, you can delegate many of
these tasks to reduce the stress of the final week before your
wedding.
As your wedding day approaches it is important to begin making
preparations for your honeymoon. Early in the week before your
wedding you will want to confirm all of your honeymoon
arrangements such as transportation, hotels and any other
special plans you have made for your honeymoon destination such
as excursions, dinner reservations or lessons. You may also want
to pack for your honeymoon during this time to prevent you from
feeling overwhelmed and trying to pack the day before or even
the day of your wedding. Getting the packing out of the way
early will help to alleviate any concerns you have over being
prepared for the honeymoon and gives you something to look
forward to. If you procrastinate with your packing you may find
yourself dreading even talking about your honeymoon because
doing so makes you realize that you are not yet prepared for the
honeymoon.
Most caterers also require a final count for the number of guest
in the week preceding your wedding. If all of your guests have
not yet responded to your invitation, you might want to consider
calling them instead of assuming that they will not be coming to
the wedding. These phone calls can save you the embarrassment of
not being prepared for additional guests. Having a confirmed
response from all of your invited guests will ensure that you
give the caterer an accurate number of guests.
You can see that there's practical value in learning more about
weddings. Can you think of ways to apply what's been covered so
far?
Now is also the time to confirm the final details with all of
your service providers such as your photographer, florist, DJ or
band and transportation provider. It's important to confirm
details such as times and expectations to ensure that there are
no misunderstandings and that you will have all of the services
that you are expecting at your wedding. You might also want to
make arrangements to pay your balances with each of these
providers if you have previously only left a deposit. While you
may be hesitant to provide payment in full before the service is
rendered and most of these services providers don't require you
to do so, you could make arrangements to leave the balance with
a responsible friend or family member who will ensure that they
are all paid on the wedding day. Many of these agencies will
only accept cash or certified checks so you will have to provide
the balance in either of these forms in individual envelopes to
your trusted friend.
The rehearsal dinner is usually held the night before the
wedding so it is important to confirm the details of the
rehearsal dinner in the final week before the wedding. Whether
the couple themselves is hosting the dinner or another person is
taking on the responsibilities of the event, it is still
necessary to confirm all of the details such as time, location
and number of guests. Also, since the couple typically uses the
rehearsal dinner to thank their parents, the wedding party and
anyone else who has supported them in the wedding planning, now
would be the time to plan out exactly what you plan to say
during this offering of thanks. While it is important to speak
from the heart, it's also important to make sure that no one who
has really gone out of their way to assist the couple is left
out of the thank you speech.
Finally, while there are many details that require your
attention in the final week before your wedding it is also
important to take some time for yourself and do something that
you consider relaxing. Whether you go to a spa to get a massage
or spend an evening at the movies, it's important to take some
time to just relax before your wedding day to ensure that you
are not completely frazzled by the time your wedding day
arrives.
The final week before a wedding can be extremely harried and
filled with last minute details but it is important to take some
time to relax during this week. It's important to ensure that
everything is in place for the wedding and that nothing is
overlooked but it's also important to remain calm and not get
caught up in the details of the wedding. Allowing yourself some
relaxation time will ensure that you are well prepared for your
wedding and that you have fully enjoyed the planning process.
That's the latest from the wedding authorities. Once you're
familiar with these ideas, you'll be ready to move to the next
level.