Why Should You Find Your Life's Purpose?
Many spiritual traditions revolve around one central question:
"Who am I ?" Even the business world ponders this crucial
matter. According to business gurus, the first step on the road
to success is asking yourself this very question:"What's my
mission? What on Earth am I doing? Am I in the right place?"
If you can't answer these questions, then you are wasting 90% of
your time and energy doing things that are neither your mission
nor your business! You will feel an inner anxiety, urging you to
search for the deeper meaning of your life.
If you consider living to be painful, if you feel dissatisfied,
if you feel "there must be more than this", if you feel out of
place in this world, then you have not yet found the purpose of
your life.
If you are questioning the meaning of life, if you can't find
inner peace, if you are not satisfied with choices you've made
in life, if you don't know which way to turn, if you feel your
life is stuffed with things that aren't of your choosing and
that don't satisfy you, if you often feel burdened and
bad-tempered, if you "have everything to feel happy" but don't,
then it is time for you to discover your true self!
Human beings want to feel useful. We long to give our lives some
deeper meaning. As long as you have not discovered this deeper
meaning, you feel frustrated and on the wrong track.
We want our lives to be worthwhile. This does not mean we need
to achieve 'great feats' or become world famous. We just need to
feel in place and do the right thing surrounded by the right
people. It's about finding out our mission. It's about finding
'inner peace'.
Our mission on Earth is twofold. The general aspect is that we
are here to learn to bring more love into the world. The
personal aspect is that everyone has its own peculiar, unique
way of doing this.
Your mission represents the central piece of your life. The
surrounding pieces represent your family, your relationship,
your kids, your job, your home, your health, your friend, and so
on. The centerpiece holds all of this together. That
centerpiece, that's you. You are the most important person in
your life, and you came to this world to do something important.
Otherwise you simply would not be here!
As long as you haven't identified the centerpiece, you'll be
wrestling with dissatisfaction, powerlessness, frustrations and
fatigue. Some people solve jigsaw puzzles by first fitting all
the pieces on the borders, and then squeeze in the piece in the
middle. That's putting the cart before the horse.
These people reason: "When I find the right partner, find the
right job, get paid a good salary, have some kids, have my own
house, meet some friends, stay healthy, then I will be happy!"
But that's not the way things work.
As long as the centerpiece is missing from the puzzle, you too
will feel empty inside. It is your responsibility to discover
your mission and get things under way.
Even the cells of your body react to this lack of purpose, this
feeling of emptiness. They suffer from spiritual malnutrition,
feel useless and bored, resulting in a physical state of
sluggishness and lethargy. This physical state will eventually
cause several physical discomforts and complaints.
Occupying yourself with "your disease" and "feeding" yourself
with medication or other such products is just another attempt
at filling the void inside. This is because the status of "being
ill" allows you to identify: "I am allergic to this or that, I
am a cancer patient, I am an Alzheimer, I am..." Once you have
started identifying yourself by your disease, it will certainly
be on your mind day and night.
If you are not in touch with your own desires, you will easily
fall prey to expectations projected upon you by your
environment. If you are not following your own path, then you
must be following someone else's! If you are not clear on your
own life mission, you will find it hard to say "no" to what
other people want you to do. This undecidedness makes you
available for all who cross your path and want a piece of you,
draining your energy.
As long as you are not clear on the shape of that centerpiece,
you are submitted to others who may not care about what's best
for you. Just like disease, these kinds of negative
relationships are a manifestation of low-level energy, showing
that you have lost focus and have strayed from your own golden
brick road.
Your self-esteem is probably pretty low and you suffer from
serious doubts and fears. The longer you put of the search, the
more the feeling that something is missing will devour you. Your
self-esteem will only decrease.
The best way to rebuild your fragile self and re-establish an
inner sense of security is to make the search for your life
mission your number one priority, and subsequently fully
dedicate yourself to it.
Why is this so important? Because you can only find real joy in
life by discovering and living according to the unique way of
your personal evolution.
But, maybe you think, can't I just continue living life the way
I have been all along? My life may not be all that exciting and
rosy, but it's still doable. Can't I just try to hang in there
and keep the status quo?
The answer is "yes". You can keep living your life in a
monotonic, sad, senseless way. But don't expect any real
satisfaction. The need to feel useful is so fundamental that you
cannot feel happy as long as you have no clue what you are here
for.
That's exactly the difference between humans and animals. For an
animal it may suffice to just sleep, hunt and eat, but humans
look for the deeper meaning of life. Humans "know" that we are
here on Earth for something more important than just eating,
sleeping and working.
Your mission gives meaning to your life. Your mission IS your
very reason for existence.
You are not alone in this search. This mission is also looking
for you. It wants to be fulfilled by you and by nobody else. It
is your personal mission. Nobody else is equipped to do it for
you. Your mission will keep haunting you until you take it
seriously and start implementing it.
Going against your mission is going against yourself. This is
the same as ignoring the call of your soul, as ignoring your
strongest desires, as signing a contract for eternal
discontent...
You can't escape your mission. One day you will have to start
dedicating yourself to it. Has this day come for you now? After
all, you are reading these lines which shows your honest desire
to start looking for the deeper meaning of your being.