Raising A Puppy: Who Is The Boss?
Raising a puppy could be as difficult as raising a child. The
only consolation you'd have is that you won't need to buy
diapers. However, you'd have to settle for "crap land mines" if
you haven't trained your dog very well.
Your dogs may have impregnated another dog or just come home
pregnant, but you won't have any problems with its puppies. In
fact you can even sell those puppies. Whereas when your teenager
has impregnated someone or comes home pregnant, you'll have lots
of moral dilemmas at hand.
Raising a puppy has got its similarities with raising a child.
In fact, one could even consider that raising a puppy could be
the training ground for you raising your own child in the
future. Both of them would involve responsibilities, although
the latter one involves more. Raising a puppy will help you
learn how to be more responsible as well.
Just like a child, you'd love your dog to be a great companion
and dependable as well. To make this happen, you'd have to
realize that raising properly with proper training and proper
owner attitude is the right way. One of the things that you
could do is show the dog that you are the boss.
Showing your dog that you are the boss or alpha male will work
because your dog always thinks that you are a pack member. That
is how dogs view relationship with owners. In the world of a
pack, there is always an alpha male.
That alpha male is always the leader that dogs will respect and
follow. That alpha dog is like the mayor of our city. The alpha
dog is the most powerful among the pack and makes him respected.
That is how your relationship with your dog should be like. Show
the dog that you are the boss or alpha male while they are still
puppies. If you are not able to show that you are the alpha
male, the dog may become aggressive knowing that he or she is
free from the powerful leader.
You wouldn't want your puppy growing up to be a brat would you?
Just think about it, how you would feel if your puppy is taking
over your space or makes you walk him around hours or times
you'd hate. They may even bite you in the worst cases.
However, to establish your Alpha male status with your dog, you
wouldn't have to lower yourself to their level. You wouldn't
have to resolve to physical aggression such as biting or
fighting your dog. There are peaceful ways out there to show
your dominance.
Dogs will even be happier submitting to a master. After all,
that is how they were bred throughout time. They will even gain
a sense of security and confidence from following a leader.
To establish you as a good pack leader without being to
aggressive try to see things in the alpha male's point of view.
The person can establish him or herself as a good leader by
projecting strength through the use of a steady and deep voice,
giving rewards when good behavior is present and reacting
nonchalant toward situations that makes a dog nervous. To
reinforce that you are the leader you should try to make the dog
have a lower submissive position.
These things may seem a bit harsh for some. But in reality,
that's how things work. Even when raising a child too. You would
need to show that you are a person to be respected to command
leadership. This training will only be for a time only, and
after that time, you and your dog will have a great time
together.