Wedding Gowns: A Guide For Making The Right Choice
Marriage is - ideally - an once-in-a-lifetime event. There isn't
much leeway to practice or make mistakes. So to make the bride's
entrance down the carpet perfect and memorable, one must take
great pains to ensure that everything is done correctly - down
to every little detail on the wedding dress.
>From watching fantasy-like weddings on TV, or reading about them
in books and magazines, or hearing about them from other people,
many brides-to-be form an image in their minds of the kind of
wedding dress they would like to wear on their wedding. Many
people take a watch and learn stance as they formulate, plan and
dream up their ideal wedding dress.
If your time has come, and you are shopping for the perfect
dress to make your wedding dreams come true, then you have come
to the right place. Here are a few tips to help you get over the
wedding dress hump will less sweat.
1. The Dress Comes First
Although it may go both ways, the theme of your dress should
follow your desired theme - or vice versa. Some couples choose a
theme before choosing a gown, and in effect, they make the gown
fit the theme they have chosen. But for some people, the choice
of gown comes first, and the theme of the wedding follows the
gown's theme. So if the gown that catches the bride's fancy is
ultra beaded and formal, then the wedding may tend to be more
formal. If the bride chooses a less formal dress, then the
wedding may follow a less formal route.
2. Don't Overwhelm Yourself with Choices
Yes, it may be tempting to try every gown that comes your way.
But what if you find yourself buried under a pile of 20 or so
gowns you think you really like and can't make a decision? That
sort of scenario will prove to be a terrible headache - not to
mention a great source of stress.
To avoid this, try making decisions in stages. You could try an
'American Idol' style way of choosing a gown. You could vote off
the least liked one and then reevaluate the remaining gowns.
Another method is trying 5 gowns and then choosing two of the
best. These 'champions' will be pit against 5 more new gowns.
Continue the tournament until you get to the perfect gown.
It may become tempting to say, "Aw, but that other gown might
have been better." Try to make sure you make your final decision
among 5 gowns. If you end up with too many to choose from you
may get overwhelmed and end up choosing an inferior gown, or
choosing the perfect gown but forever asking yourself whether
you made the right decision or not.
Choose Wisely
And choose a wise companion; take along one or two of your
closest friends or confidants who know a thing or two about
wedding dresses and style. Their advice will come in handy when
choosing a gown. Also, make sure you check the durability and
quality of the gown, the material and the accessories. You don't
want your gown falling apart on you during the ceremonies.