Happiness Formula

Desires, desires, desires------. We are obsessed by them. How a single human can have so much desires. No one can answer this question. One of our desires is fulfilled, thousand more comes up instantly. Desires are not bound to anybody. A rich can have them and simultaneously a poor can also. Desires are some thing, which everybody has in abundance. Every one has its own set of desires. Someone desires for money and other for a beautiful wife. Desires are endless. They are for a small trivia to highly expensive things.

Is it good to have a desire or not? Desires are good, if they are in controlled number and in ones achievable limit. Desires provide us the energy to fulfill our dreams. It gives our goals the motive and direction. One can only fulfill his dreams, if he has desire for it. Desire is first basic thing to achieve something. All the world leaders who have achieved excellence in their lives have strong desire for achievement. Desire work as the basic ingredient in fulfilling our dreams. Therefore desires are necessary, as they give direction to our life.

However on the contrary, we are usually over burdened by our desires. We have desires much more than what we can achieve or is in our limits. Most of our desires originate due to the others achievements or their lifestyle. We want to become or look like them. Second the world is shrinking, making more things in our reach. This is putting more pressure on our decision power. TV and Media are also increasing our desires by providing us information about lot of thing. Ours friends and relative