Tension can kill. Looking at everything that can go wrong can cause someone to snap. Looking at everything that is going on and seeing what is bad about it can cause many problems. The biggest thing that you can do to help your significant other is to encourage them to relax, to calm down. It can be a hard thing to do though.

Try to show them to good side of things. The best way to do that is to put a good spin on things. Show them that even if things look bad, they are not really so. Find activities that are calming, or offer massages. Being proactive here is a good thing. Don