Sometimes young men set goals to make a lot of money so they can provide for their family and they do not want their wives to have to work, but rather stay home with the kids. The old barefoot and pregnant thing and perhaps not to that degree, but rather a more traditional approach to the family unit.
Often this is bothersome to their potential mate, as it disregards their goals and dreams. Of course much of this of this of course is the upbringing from family. Traditional thinking. Personally I admire strong women. Of course I despise all weakness and mediocrity and dishonest people. Working women often say that